{"id":669,"date":"2025-02-14T20:51:31","date_gmt":"2025-02-14T20:51:31","guid":{"rendered":"https:\/\/bilgitarif.com\/yeni\/?p=669"},"modified":"2025-02-14T20:51:31","modified_gmt":"2025-02-14T20:51:31","slug":"eltimle-cok-iyi-anlasiyorduk","status":"publish","type":"post","link":"https:\/\/bilgitarif.com\/yeni\/eltimle-cok-iyi-anlasiyorduk\/","title":{"rendered":"Eltimle \u00e7ok iyi anla\u015f\u0131yorduk"},"content":{"rendered":"\n\t\t<style type=\"text\/css\">\n\t\t\t#gallery-1 {\n\t\t\t\tmargin: auto;\n\t\t\t}\n\t\t\t#gallery-1 .gallery-item {\n\t\t\t\tfloat: left;\n\t\t\t\tmargin-top: 10px;\n\t\t\t\ttext-align: center;\n\t\t\t\twidth: 33%;\n\t\t\t}\n\t\t\t#gallery-1 img {\n\t\t\t\tborder: 2px solid #cfcfcf;\n\t\t\t}\n\t\t\t#gallery-1 .gallery-caption {\n\t\t\t\tmargin-left: 0;\n\t\t\t}\n\t\t\t\/* see gallery_shortcode() in wp-includes\/media.php *\/\n\t\t<\/style>\n\t\t<div id='gallery-1' class='gallery galleryid-669 gallery-columns-3 gallery-size-thumbnail'><dl class='gallery-item'>\n\t\t\t<dt class='gallery-icon landscape'>\n\t\t\t\t<a href='https:\/\/bilgitarif.com\/yeni\/eltimle-cok-iyi-anlasiyorduk\/eltimle-cok-iyi-anlasiyorduk\/'><img loading=\"lazy\" decoding=\"async\" width=\"150\" height=\"150\" src=\"https:\/\/bilgitarif.com\/yeni\/wp-content\/uploads\/2025\/02\/Eltimle-cok-iyi-anlasiyorduk-150x150.png\" class=\"attachment-thumbnail size-thumbnail\" alt=\"\" aria-describedby=\"gallery-1-670\" \/><\/a>\n\t\t\t<\/dt>\n\t\t\t\t<dd class='wp-caption-text gallery-caption' id='gallery-1-670'>\n\t\t\t\tEltimle \u00e7ok iyi anla\u015f\u0131yorduk, ayn\u0131 binan\u0131n \u00fcst katinda eltimler, alt katta biz oturuyorduk, e\u015flerimiz i\u015fe gidince hemen hemen hergun kahvalt\u0131y\u0131 beraber yap\u0131yorduk, onun bir o\u011flu bir k\u0131z\u0131 var, benim bir o\u011flum vard\u0131, hersey yolundayd\u0131, eltim g\u00fczel kad\u0131nd\u0131 giyimine falan benden daha \u00f6zen g\u00f6sterirdi, banada arada kendine biraz dikkat et havva yeni k\u0131yafetler al e\u015fine s\u00fcslen ortal\u0131k k\u00f6t\u00fc kocan yak\u0131\u015f\u0131kl\u0131 adam elinden al\u0131rlar valla g\u00f6r\u00fcrs\u00fcn bak derdi. K\u0131zmazd\u0131m ona ama biraz i\u00e7im burulurdu, beni bak\u0131ms\u0131z \u00e7irkin g\u00f6r\u00fcyor gibiydi sanki, haftan\u0131n bikacg\u00fcn\u00fc aksam yemeklerini hep beraber yerdik, son zamanlarda e\u015fimle biraz fazla sohbet etmeye ba\u015flam\u0131\u015ft\u0131, e\u015fime bu durum beni rahats\u0131z ediyor deyince, o benim yengem ne diyorsun sen diye beni dedi\u011fime pi\u015fman ediyordu bende \u00e7aresiz susuyordum. Haftasonu e\u015fim evdeyken gelip hakan abin i\u015fi varm\u0131\u015f biyere gitti beni iki dakika arabayla markete bazende \u00e7ar\u015f\u0131ya b\u0131rak\u0131rm\u0131s\u0131n diyordu, art\u0131k iyice sinir olmaya ba\u015flad\u0131m, birgun eltim hamile oldu\u011funu s\u00f6yledi ama a\u011flay\u0131p ald\u0131rmak istiyorum bu \u00e7ocu\u011fu dedi, hepimiz kar\u015f\u0131 \u00e7\u0131kt\u0131k do\u011furmas\u0131 i\u00e7in ikna ettik, e\u015fim hari\u00e7, zaten iki \u00e7ocuklar\u0131 var ne gerek vard\u0131 bitaneye daha bence ald\u0131rs\u0131n dedi, \u00e7ok \u015fa\u015f\u0131rd\u0131m b\u00f6yle d\u00fc\u015f\u00fcnmesine, biz kar\u0131\u015fmayal\u0131m hayat\u0131m kendileri bilir dedim, birden \u00f6fkelendi sen i\u015fine bak diye ba\u011f\u0131rd\u0131, e\u015fimi tan\u0131yam\u0131yordum artik hep sinirliydi. Aradan 1 hafta ge\u00e7ti hayat\u0131m\u0131n karard\u0131\u011f\u0131 o g\u00fcn eltim bize geldi, e\u015fim eltimin geldi\u011fini g\u00f6rmedi balkonda oturuyordu ama ben onu g\u00f6r\u00fcyordum telefona g\u00f6m\u00fclm\u00fc\u015f birine birseyler yaziyor gibiydi, 1 dakika gecmedi eltimin telefonundan mesaj sesi geldi, o ara eltim \u00e7ocu\u011funu tuvalete g\u00f6t\u00fcrm\u00fc\u015ft\u00fc duymad\u0131 mesaj sesini, abla salataya limon kalmam\u0131\u015f sende varmi dedim, var var dur hemen getiriyorum dedi \u00e7\u0131kt\u0131, hemen telefonunu ald\u0131m mesaj\u0131 a\u00e7t\u0131m \n\t\t\t\t<\/dd><\/dl><dl class='gallery-item'>\n\t\t\t<dt class='gallery-icon portrait'>\n\t\t\t\t<a href='https:\/\/bilgitarif.com\/yeni\/eltimle-cok-iyi-anlasiyorduk\/elti\/'><img loading=\"lazy\" decoding=\"async\" width=\"150\" height=\"150\" src=\"https:\/\/bilgitarif.com\/yeni\/wp-content\/uploads\/2025\/02\/elti-150x150.jpg\" class=\"attachment-thumbnail size-thumbnail\" alt=\"\" aria-describedby=\"gallery-1-671\" \/><\/a>\n\t\t\t<\/dt>\n\t\t\t\t<dd class='wp-caption-text gallery-caption' id='gallery-1-671'>\n\t\t\t\tMesaj\u0131 a\u00e7t\u0131\u011f\u0131mda g\u00f6zlerime inanamad\u0131m\u2026 E\u015fimin ad\u0131n\u0131 ve numaras\u0131n\u0131 ekranda g\u00f6rd\u00fc\u011f\u00fcm an kalbim yerinden \u00e7\u0131kacak gibi \u00e7arpt\u0131. Titreyen ellerimle mesaj\u0131 okudum:\n\n&#8220;Sak\u0131n s\u00f6yleme, yoksa her \u015fey biter! Bir yolunu bulup halledece\u011fim, sabret.&#8221;\n\nDizlerimin ba\u011f\u0131 \u00e7\u00f6z\u00fcld\u00fc, nefes alamad\u0131m sanki. O an beynimden vurulmu\u015fa d\u00f6nd\u00fcm. Demek ki hislerimde yan\u0131lmam\u0131\u015ft\u0131m\u2026 E\u015fim ve eltim aras\u0131nda bir \u015feyler vard\u0131! Peki, neydi bu &#8220;halletmek&#8221; istedikleri \u015fey?\n\nTelefonu h\u0131zla yerine koydum, nefesimi dengelemeye \u00e7al\u0131\u015farak mutfa\u011fa d\u00f6nd\u00fcm. Eltim limonu getirmi\u015f, masaya koyuyordu. Benden \u015f\u00fcphelenmesin diye y\u00fcz\u00fcm\u00fc saklamaya \u00e7al\u0131\u015ft\u0131m ama i\u00e7im i\u00e7imi yiyordu. E\u015fimle g\u00f6z g\u00f6ze geldi\u011fimde, bir an i\u00e7in ifadesi donukla\u015ft\u0131, sonra hemen toparland\u0131. O an daha da emin oldum!\n\nArt\u0131k ne yapaca\u011f\u0131m\u0131 biliyordum. Ama \u00f6nce sessizce her \u015feyi \u00f6\u011frenmeliydim\u2026\n\t\t\t\t<\/dd><\/dl>\n\t\t\t<br style='clear: both' \/>\n\t\t<\/div>\n\n","protected":false},"excerpt":{"rendered":"","protected":false},"author":1,"featured_media":670,"comment_status":"open","ping_status":"open","sticky":false,"template":"","format":"standard","meta":{"footnotes":""},"categories":[9],"tags":[],"class_list":["post-669","post","type-post","status-publish","format-standard","has-post-thumbnail","hentry","category-foto-galeri"],"_links":{"self":[{"href":"https:\/\/bilgitarif.com\/yeni\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/posts\/669","targetHints":{"allow":["GET"]}}],"collection":[{"href":"https:\/\/bilgitarif.com\/yeni\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/posts"}],"about":[{"href":"https:\/\/bilgitarif.com\/yeni\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/types\/post"}],"author":[{"embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/bilgitarif.com\/yeni\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/users\/1"}],"replies":[{"embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/bilgitarif.com\/yeni\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/comments?post=669"}],"version-history":[{"count":1,"href":"https:\/\/bilgitarif.com\/yeni\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/posts\/669\/revisions"}],"predecessor-version":[{"id":672,"href":"https:\/\/bilgitarif.com\/yeni\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/posts\/669\/revisions\/672"}],"wp:featuredmedia":[{"embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/bilgitarif.com\/yeni\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/media\/670"}],"wp:attachment":[{"href":"https:\/\/bilgitarif.com\/yeni\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/media?parent=669"}],"wp:term":[{"taxonomy":"category","embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/bilgitarif.com\/yeni\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/categories?post=669"},{"taxonomy":"post_tag","embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/bilgitarif.com\/yeni\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/tags?post=669"}],"curies":[{"name":"wp","href":"https:\/\/api.w.org\/{rel}","templated":true}]}}