{"id":5825,"date":"2026-04-24T19:47:21","date_gmt":"2026-04-24T19:47:21","guid":{"rendered":"https:\/\/bilgitarif.com\/yeni\/?p=5825"},"modified":"2026-04-24T19:47:21","modified_gmt":"2026-04-24T19:47:21","slug":"uvey-annem-olen-annemin-yadigari-elbisemi-parcaladi","status":"publish","type":"post","link":"https:\/\/bilgitarif.com\/yeni\/uvey-annem-olen-annemin-yadigari-elbisemi-parcaladi\/","title":{"rendered":"\u00dcvey Annem \u00d6len Annemin Yadigar\u0131 Elbisemi Par\u00e7alad\u0131"},"content":{"rendered":"\n\t\t<style type=\"text\/css\">\n\t\t\t#gallery-1 {\n\t\t\t\tmargin: auto;\n\t\t\t}\n\t\t\t#gallery-1 .gallery-item {\n\t\t\t\tfloat: left;\n\t\t\t\tmargin-top: 10px;\n\t\t\t\ttext-align: center;\n\t\t\t\twidth: 33%;\n\t\t\t}\n\t\t\t#gallery-1 img {\n\t\t\t\tborder: 2px solid #cfcfcf;\n\t\t\t}\n\t\t\t#gallery-1 .gallery-caption {\n\t\t\t\tmargin-left: 0;\n\t\t\t}\n\t\t\t\/* see gallery_shortcode() in wp-includes\/media.php *\/\n\t\t<\/style>\n\t\t<div id='gallery-1' class='gallery galleryid-5825 gallery-columns-3 gallery-size-thumbnail'><dl class='gallery-item'>\n\t\t\t<dt class='gallery-icon portrait'>\n\t\t\t\t<a href='https:\/\/bilgitarif.com\/yeni\/uvey-annem-olen-annemin-yadigari-elbisemi-parcaladi\/dss\/'><img loading=\"lazy\" decoding=\"async\" width=\"150\" height=\"150\" src=\"https:\/\/bilgitarif.com\/yeni\/wp-content\/uploads\/2026\/04\/dss-150x150.jpg\" class=\"attachment-thumbnail size-thumbnail\" alt=\"\" aria-describedby=\"gallery-1-5826\" \/><\/a>\n\t\t\t<\/dt>\n\t\t\t\t<dd class='wp-caption-text gallery-caption' id='gallery-1-5826'>\n\t\t\t\t17 ya\u015f\u0131ndayd\u0131m ve lise y\u0131llar\u0131m\u0131n en \u00f6nemli gecesi gelip \u00e7atm\u0131\u015ft\u0131: Mezuniyet balosu. Hayat\u0131m boyunca kendi balomda, annemin mezuniyetinde giydi\u011fi o \u00f6zel elbiseyi giymeyi hayal etmi\u015ftim. Ben hen\u00fcz 12 ya\u015f\u0131ndayken kanser onu benden ay\u0131rm\u0131\u015ft\u0131 ve bu elbise benim i\u00e7in d\u00fcnyadaki en de\u011ferli \u015feydi. Y\u0131llar sonra babam yeniden evlendi. Yeni e\u015fi Melis, sadece g\u00f6steri\u015fe, stat\u00fcye ve paraya tapan biriydi. Annemin e\u015fyalar\u0131n\u0131 &#8220;\u00e7\u00f6p&#8221; diyerek at\u0131p evi kendi zevkine g\u00f6re pahal\u0131 e\u015fyalarla doldurmu\u015ftu. Balodan bir g\u00fcn \u00f6nce aynan\u0131n kar\u015f\u0131s\u0131nda annemin o zarif elbisesiyle kendime hayranl\u0131kla bak\u0131yordum. Melis odaya girdi ve i\u011frenerek bakt\u0131: &#8220;Bu pa\u00e7avray\u0131 giyemezsin! Ailemizi utand\u0131racaks\u0131n. B\u0130NLERCE L\u0130RA DE\u011eER\u0130NDEK\u0130, BEN\u0130M SE\u00c7T\u0130\u011e\u0130M O TASARIM ELB\u0130SEY\u0130 G\u0130YECEKS\u0130N!&#8221; diye ba\u011f\u0131rd\u0131. Onu hi\u00e7 umursamad\u0131m ve &#8220;Bu elbise benim i\u00e7in \u00e7ok \u00f6zel, sadece bunu giyece\u011fim&#8221; dedim. Ertesi g\u00fcn, baloya saatler kala haz\u0131rlanmak i\u00e7in odama gidip k\u0131l\u0131f\u0131 a\u00e7t\u0131\u011f\u0131mda oldu\u011fum yerde dondum. Annemin yadigar\u0131 mahvolmu\u015ftu! Diki\u015fleri ac\u0131mas\u0131zca y\u0131rt\u0131lm\u0131\u015f, p\u0131r\u0131l p\u0131r\u0131l saten kuma\u015f\u0131n \u00fczerine kasten kahve d\u00f6k\u00fcl\u00fcp lekelenmi\u015fti. Tam o s\u0131rada Melis kap\u0131da belirdi, y\u00fcz\u00fcnde sinsi ve zafer kazanm\u0131\u015f bir g\u00fcl\u00fcmseme vard\u0131. &#8220;Ah, demek buldun!&#8221; dedi. G\u00f6zya\u015flar\u0131 i\u00e7inde, &#8220;Bunu sen mi yapt\u0131n? Bu annemin elbisesiydi&#8230; Bunu nas\u0131l yapars\u0131n?!&#8221; diye hayk\u0131rd\u0131m. Melis umursamazca g\u00f6zlerini devirdi: &#8220;Art\u0131k senin annen benim! Kes sesini ve uzatma! O pa\u00e7avray\u0131 \u00e7oktan \u00e7\u00f6pe atm\u0131\u015f olmal\u0131yd\u0131n!&#8221; Ellerim titriyordu. Hayat\u0131m\u0131n en g\u00fczel gecesi zehir olmu\u015ftu ve \u00e7aresizlikten ne yapaca\u011f\u0131m\u0131 bilemez bir halde kaskat\u0131 kesilmi\u015ftim. Ama tam o saniyede babam kap\u0131da belirdi&#8230; Ve \u00fcvey annemin o bitmek bilmez kibrini \u00f6yle bir yerle bir etti ki, o an ya\u015fanacaklar\u0131 \u00f6mr\u00fcm boyunca unutamayacakt\u0131m. Babam\u0131n y\u00fcz\u00fc, daha \u00f6nce hi\u00e7 g\u00f6rmedi\u011fim kadar sert ve ifadesizdi. O her zamanki ne\u015feli ve anlay\u0131\u015fl\u0131 adam gitmi\u015f, yerine \u00f6fkesini zar zor zapt eden bir f\u0131rt\u0131na gelmi\u015fti. G\u00f6zleri \u00f6nce elimde tuttu\u011fum parampar\u00e7a olmu\u015f o saten kuma\u015fa, sonra benim ya\u015fl\u0131 g\u00f6zlerime, en son da Melis&#8217;in y\u00fcz\u00fcndeki o i\u011fren\u00e7, tatmin olmu\u015f kibre kayd\u0131. &#8220;Sen az \u00f6nce k\u0131z\u0131ma ne dedin?&#8221; diye sordu babam. Sesi f\u0131rt\u0131na \u00f6ncesi sessizli\u011fi and\u0131ran, \u00fcrk\u00fct\u00fcc\u00fc bir sakinlikteydi..\n\t\t\t\t<\/dd><\/dl><dl class='gallery-item'>\n\t\t\t<dt class='gallery-icon portrait'>\n\t\t\t\t<a href='https:\/\/bilgitarif.com\/yeni\/uvey-annem-olen-annemin-yadigari-elbisemi-parcaladi\/fdfdf\/'><img loading=\"lazy\" decoding=\"async\" width=\"150\" height=\"150\" src=\"https:\/\/bilgitarif.com\/yeni\/wp-content\/uploads\/2026\/04\/fdfdf-150x150.jpg\" class=\"attachment-thumbnail size-thumbnail\" alt=\"\" aria-describedby=\"gallery-1-5827\" \/><\/a>\n\t\t\t<\/dt>\n\t\t\t\t<dd class='wp-caption-text gallery-caption' id='gallery-1-5827'>\n\t\t\t\tMelis babam\u0131 arkas\u0131nda g\u00f6r\u00fcnce aniden panikledi ama hemen o sahte ve \u015f\u0131mar\u0131k g\u00fcl\u00fcmsemesiyle durumu toparlamaya \u00e7al\u0131\u015ft\u0131. &#8220;Hayat\u0131m, yanl\u0131\u015f anlad\u0131n. O elbise zaten \u00e7ok eskiydi, diki\u015fleri \u00e7\u00fcr\u00fcm\u00fc\u015ft\u00fc. K\u0131z\u0131m\u0131z\u0131n o pa\u00e7avrayla baloya gidip cemiyet hayat\u0131ndaki dostlar\u0131m\u0131za rezil olmas\u0131n\u0131 istemedim. Ben sadece onun ve bizim itibar\u0131m\u0131z\u0131n iyili\u011fi i\u00e7in yapt\u0131m! Zaten a\u015fa\u011f\u0131da ona ald\u0131\u011f\u0131m o harika tasar\u0131m elbise duruyor, onu giymeli&#8230;&#8221; &#8220;Sus!&#8221; diye k\u00fckredi babam. O kadar y\u00fcksek ve i\u00e7ten ba\u011f\u0131rm\u0131\u015ft\u0131 ki, evin camlar\u0131 titremi\u015fti sanki. &#8220;O elbise benim bu d\u00fcnyada en \u00e7ok sevdi\u011fim kad\u0131n\u0131n kokusunu ta\u015f\u0131yordu. O, k\u0131z\u0131m\u0131n annesinden kalan en kutsal emanetti. Sen sadece bir kuma\u015f par\u00e7as\u0131n\u0131 y\u0131rtmad\u0131n, sen bu evdeki t\u00fcm sayg\u0131y\u0131, hat\u0131ralar\u0131m\u0131z\u0131 ve benim sana olan son tahamm\u00fcl\u00fcm\u00fc de parampar\u00e7a ettin.&#8221; Melis geriye do\u011fru bir ad\u0131m att\u0131, kibri yerini korkuya b\u0131rakm\u0131\u015ft\u0131. &#8220;Bir bez par\u00e7as\u0131 y\u00fcz\u00fcnden bana b\u00f6yle ba\u011f\u0131ramazs\u0131n, ben senin kar\u0131n\u0131m!&#8221; diye ciyaklad\u0131. &#8220;Hay\u0131r, art\u0131k de\u011filsin,&#8221; dedi babam buz gibi, tavizsiz bir sesle. Cebinden telefonunu \u00e7\u0131kard\u0131 ve h\u0131zla bir numaray\u0131 tu\u015flad\u0131. &#8220;Avukat\u0131mla konu\u015fuyorum. Evlilik s\u00f6zle\u015fmemizdeki kusurlu davran\u0131\u015f maddesini an itibar\u0131yla i\u015fletiyoruz. Benden tek bir kuru\u015f bile alamayacaks\u0131n.&#8221; Telefonu kapat\u0131p Melis&#8217;e d\u00f6nd\u00fc. &#8220;\u015eimdi odana \u00e7\u0131k\u0131yorsun, o \u00e7ok g\u00fcvendi\u011fin alt\u0131n kredi kartlar\u0131n\u0131 masaya b\u0131rak\u0131yorsun. Sadece bu eve gelmeden \u00f6nce sahip oldu\u011fun o iki eski valizi al\u0131p hemen, \u015fu dakika kap\u0131 d\u0131\u015far\u0131 \u00e7\u0131k\u0131yorsun!&#8221; Melis&#8217;in rengi k\u00e2\u011f\u0131t gibi bembeyaz oldu. Kibri, l\u00fcks ya\u015fam\u0131 ve paraya olan h\u0131rs\u0131 saniyeler i\u00e7inde yerle bir olmu\u015ftu. &#8220;Bunu yapamazs\u0131n! Nereye giderim ben? L\u00fctfen affet!&#8221; diye yalvarmaya, diz \u00e7\u00f6kmeye ba\u015flad\u0131 ama babam tek bir ad\u0131m bile geri atmad\u0131. Onu kolundan tutup kap\u0131ya do\u011fru y\u00f6nlendirdi\u011finde Melis&#8217;in h\u0131\u00e7k\u0131r\u0131klar\u0131 ve \u00e7\u0131rp\u0131n\u0131\u015flar\u0131 umrumda bile de\u011fildi. O evden defolup gitti\u011finde ve kap\u0131 arkas\u0131ndan sert\u00e7e kapand\u0131\u011f\u0131nda, odada sadece babam ve ben kalm\u0131\u015ft\u0131k. Y\u0131rt\u0131k, kahve lekeli elbiseye bak\u0131p h\u0131\u00e7k\u0131r\u0131klara bo\u011fuldum. &#8220;Ama balo&#8230; Annemin elbisesi gitti baba,&#8221; diye a\u011flad\u0131m. \u0130\u00e7imde koca bir bo\u015fluk a\u00e7\u0131lm\u0131\u015ft\u0131. Babam yan\u0131ma diz \u00e7\u00f6kt\u00fc. Y\u00fcz\u00fcndeki o sert ifade tamamen kaybolmu\u015f, yerine her zamanki o \u015fefkatli baba gelmi\u015fti. G\u00f6zya\u015flar\u0131m\u0131 s\u0131cak elleriyle sildi. &#8220;Benim g\u00fczel k\u0131z\u0131m,&#8221; dedi usulca tebess\u00fcm ederek. &#8220;Ger\u00e7ekten annenin en de\u011ferli hat\u0131ras\u0131n\u0131 o kad\u0131n\u0131n insaf\u0131na ve h\u0131rs\u0131na b\u0131rakacak kadar dikkatsiz oldu\u011fumu mu sand\u0131n?&#8221; \u015ea\u015fk\u0131nl\u0131kla g\u00f6zlerimi k\u0131rp\u0131\u015ft\u0131rd\u0131m. G\u00f6zya\u015flar\u0131m durmu\u015ftu. Babam aya\u011fa kalkt\u0131 ve odam\u0131n k\u00f6\u015fesindeki dolab\u0131n en arkas\u0131nda duran, \u015fifreli kendi \u00f6zel kasas\u0131n\u0131 a\u00e7t\u0131. \u0130\u00e7inden bembeyaz, tertemiz bir elbise k\u0131l\u0131f\u0131 \u00e7\u0131kard\u0131. K\u0131l\u0131f\u0131n fermuar\u0131n\u0131 yava\u015f\u00e7a a\u015fa\u011f\u0131 indirdi\u011finde nefesim kesildi. Annemin ger\u00e7ek elbisesi oradayd\u0131! Ne bir y\u0131rt\u0131k, ne bir leke&#8230; P\u0131r\u0131l p\u0131r\u0131l, taptaze duruyordu. Satenin o e\u015fsiz parlakl\u0131\u011f\u0131 g\u00f6zlerimi kama\u015ft\u0131rd\u0131. &#8220;Melis&#8217;in e\u015fyalara ne kadar sayg\u0131s\u0131z ve tahamm\u00fcls\u00fcz oldu\u011funu biliyordum. Bu y\u00fczden haftalar \u00f6nce annenin ger\u00e7ek elbisesini \u015fehrin en iyi restorasyon terzisine g\u00f6t\u00fcrd\u00fcm. Az \u00f6nce o kad\u0131n\u0131n b\u00fcy\u00fck bir zevkle ve kinle par\u00e7alad\u0131\u011f\u0131 \u015fey, ona \u00e7ok benzeyen ve ikinci el d\u00fckkan\u0131ndan yirmi liraya ald\u0131\u011f\u0131m ucuz bir kopyayd\u0131. O kad\u0131n benim k\u0131z\u0131ma zarar verdi\u011fini san\u0131rken, asl\u0131nda sadece kendi kibrini ve sahte evlili\u011fini y\u0131rtt\u0131.&#8221; Babam\u0131n boynuma \u00f6yle bir sar\u0131ld\u0131m ki ikimiz de mutluluktan a\u011flamaya ba\u015flad\u0131k. O gece annemin o muazzam elbisesini giydim. Kuma\u015f\u0131 tenime dokundu\u011funda, sanki annem g\u00f6ky\u00fcz\u00fcnden uzan\u0131p bana s\u0131ms\u0131k\u0131 sar\u0131l\u0131yormu\u015f gibi hissettim. Balonun yap\u0131ld\u0131\u011f\u0131 b\u00fcy\u00fck salona ad\u0131m att\u0131\u011f\u0131mda, m\u00fczik bir anl\u0131\u011f\u0131na durmu\u015f gibi oldu ve herkes b\u00fcy\u00fclenmi\u015f gibi bana bak\u0131yordu. Ben o gece sadece d\u00fcnyan\u0131n en g\u00fczel elbisesini ta\u015f\u0131m\u0131yordum; k\u00f6t\u00fcl\u00fc\u011f\u00fcn asla iyili\u011fi yenemeyece\u011finin kan\u0131t\u0131n\u0131, annemin sonsuz ve \u00f6l\u00fcms\u00fcz sevgisini ve babam\u0131n o koca y\u00fcrekli koruyuculu\u011funu da \u00fczerimde ta\u015f\u0131yordum. O gece benim i\u00e7in sadece bir lise mezuniyeti de\u011fil, karanl\u0131\u011f\u0131n i\u00e7inden tertemiz ve \u0131\u015f\u0131l \u0131\u015f\u0131l \u00e7\u0131kt\u0131\u011f\u0131m, hayat\u0131m\u0131n en anlaml\u0131 ba\u015flang\u0131c\u0131yd\u0131.\n\n\n\t\t\t\t<\/dd><\/dl>\n\t\t\t<br style='clear: both' \/>\n\t\t<\/div>\n\n","protected":false},"excerpt":{"rendered":"","protected":false},"author":1,"featured_media":5826,"comment_status":"open","ping_status":"open","sticky":false,"template":"","format":"standard","meta":{"footnotes":""},"categories":[9],"tags":[],"class_list":["post-5825","post","type-post","status-publish","format-standard","has-post-thumbnail","hentry","category-foto-galeri"],"_links":{"self":[{"href":"https:\/\/bilgitarif.com\/yeni\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/posts\/5825","targetHints":{"allow":["GET"]}}],"collection":[{"href":"https:\/\/bilgitarif.com\/yeni\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/posts"}],"about":[{"href":"https:\/\/bilgitarif.com\/yeni\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/types\/post"}],"author":[{"embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/bilgitarif.com\/yeni\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/users\/1"}],"replies":[{"embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/bilgitarif.com\/yeni\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/comments?post=5825"}],"version-history":[{"count":1,"href":"https:\/\/bilgitarif.com\/yeni\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/posts\/5825\/revisions"}],"predecessor-version":[{"id":5828,"href":"https:\/\/bilgitarif.com\/yeni\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/posts\/5825\/revisions\/5828"}],"wp:featuredmedia":[{"embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/bilgitarif.com\/yeni\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/media\/5826"}],"wp:attachment":[{"href":"https:\/\/bilgitarif.com\/yeni\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/media?parent=5825"}],"wp:term":[{"taxonomy":"category","embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/bilgitarif.com\/yeni\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/categories?post=5825"},{"taxonomy":"post_tag","embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/bilgitarif.com\/yeni\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/tags?post=5825"}],"curies":[{"name":"wp","href":"https:\/\/api.w.org\/{rel}","templated":true}]}}