{"id":5771,"date":"2026-04-23T21:16:06","date_gmt":"2026-04-23T21:16:06","guid":{"rendered":"https:\/\/bilgitarif.com\/yeni\/?p=5771"},"modified":"2026-04-23T21:16:06","modified_gmt":"2026-04-23T21:16:06","slug":"11-yil-boyunca-kayinvalideme-oz-annem-gibi-baktim","status":"publish","type":"post","link":"https:\/\/bilgitarif.com\/yeni\/11-yil-boyunca-kayinvalideme-oz-annem-gibi-baktim\/","title":{"rendered":"11 YIL BOYUNCA KAYINVAL\u0130DEME \u00d6Z ANNEM G\u0130B\u0130 BAKTIM"},"content":{"rendered":"\n\t\t<style type=\"text\/css\">\n\t\t\t#gallery-1 {\n\t\t\t\tmargin: auto;\n\t\t\t}\n\t\t\t#gallery-1 .gallery-item {\n\t\t\t\tfloat: left;\n\t\t\t\tmargin-top: 10px;\n\t\t\t\ttext-align: center;\n\t\t\t\twidth: 33%;\n\t\t\t}\n\t\t\t#gallery-1 img {\n\t\t\t\tborder: 2px solid #cfcfcf;\n\t\t\t}\n\t\t\t#gallery-1 .gallery-caption {\n\t\t\t\tmargin-left: 0;\n\t\t\t}\n\t\t\t\/* see gallery_shortcode() in wp-includes\/media.php *\/\n\t\t<\/style>\n\t\t<div id='gallery-1' class='gallery galleryid-5771 gallery-columns-3 gallery-size-thumbnail'><dl class='gallery-item'>\n\t\t\t<dt class='gallery-icon landscape'>\n\t\t\t\t<a href='https:\/\/bilgitarif.com\/yeni\/11-yil-boyunca-kayinvalideme-oz-annem-gibi-baktim\/bbs-67\/'><img loading=\"lazy\" decoding=\"async\" width=\"150\" height=\"150\" src=\"https:\/\/bilgitarif.com\/yeni\/wp-content\/uploads\/2026\/04\/bbs-21-150x150.jpg\" class=\"attachment-thumbnail size-thumbnail\" alt=\"\" aria-describedby=\"gallery-1-5772\" \/><\/a>\n\t\t\t<\/dt>\n\t\t\t\t<dd class='wp-caption-text gallery-caption' id='gallery-1-5772'>\n\t\t\t\tAvukat\u0131n sesi, odadaki a\u011f\u0131r havay\u0131 b\u0131\u00e7ak gibi yard\u0131:\n\n\u201cAncak\u2026 bu mirasla ilgili \u00f6zel bir \u015fart bulunmaktad\u0131r.\u201d\n\nHerkes bir anda sustu. F\u0131s\u0131lt\u0131lar kesildi. G\u00f6zler avukata kilitlendi.\n\nBen nefesimi tuttum.\n\nAvukat g\u00f6zl\u00fc\u011f\u00fcn\u00fc d\u00fczeltti, dosyadaki sayfay\u0131 dikkatle a\u00e7t\u0131 ve devam etti:\n\n\u201cMerhume, \u0130stanbul ve \u0130zmir\u2019deki iki evin tapusunun do\u011frudan k\u0131z\u0131na devredilmesini istemi\u015ftir\u2026 ancak bu devir, belirli bir ko\u015fula ba\u011fl\u0131d\u0131r.\u201d\n\nG\u00f6r\u00fcmcem ba\u015f\u0131n\u0131 kald\u0131rd\u0131. Y\u00fcz\u00fcndeki o hafif g\u00fcl\u00fcmseme bir anl\u0131\u011f\u0131na dondu.\n\n\u201cKo\u015ful nedir?\u201d diye sordu, sesi biraz aceleciydi.\n\nAvukat duraksamadan okudu:\n\n\n\t\t\t\t<\/dd><\/dl><dl class='gallery-item'>\n\t\t\t<dt class='gallery-icon portrait'>\n\t\t\t\t<a href='https:\/\/bilgitarif.com\/yeni\/11-yil-boyunca-kayinvalideme-oz-annem-gibi-baktim\/annem\/'><img loading=\"lazy\" decoding=\"async\" width=\"150\" height=\"150\" src=\"https:\/\/bilgitarif.com\/yeni\/wp-content\/uploads\/2026\/04\/annem-150x150.jpg\" class=\"attachment-thumbnail size-thumbnail\" alt=\"\" aria-describedby=\"gallery-1-5773\" \/><\/a>\n\t\t\t<\/dt>\n\t\t\t\t<dd class='wp-caption-text gallery-caption' id='gallery-1-5773'>\n\t\t\t\t\u201cBu iki m\u00fclk\u00fcn tam m\u00fclkiyeti, k\u0131z\u0131m taraf\u0131ndan en az bir y\u0131l boyunca bizzat kullan\u0131lmas\u0131 ve\u2026 annesine son 11 y\u0131l boyunca bak\u0131m veren gelinimle ayn\u0131 evde, ayn\u0131 sorumluluklar\u0131 \u00fcstlenerek ya\u015famas\u0131 \u015fart\u0131yla kesinle\u015fecektir.\u201d\n\nO an\u2026 odadaki hava de\u011fi\u015fti.\n\nG\u00f6r\u00fcmcemin y\u00fcz\u00fc bembeyaz oldu.\n\n\u201cNe demek bu?\u201d dedi, sesi titriyordu.\n\nAvukat sakince a\u00e7\u0131klad\u0131:\n\n\u201cYani\u2026 siz bir y\u0131l boyunca gelininizle birlikte ya\u015fayacak, merhumenin son y\u0131llar\u0131nda ihtiya\u00e7 duydu\u011fu bak\u0131m\u0131n ayn\u0131s\u0131n\u0131 \u00fcstlenecek ve bunu kesintisiz s\u00fcrd\u00fcreceksiniz. Aksi takdirde\u2026 m\u00fclkler devredilmeyecektir.\u201d\n\n\u201cPeki o zaman ne olacak?\u201d diye biri sordu.\n\nAvukat sayfay\u0131 \u00e7evirdi.\n\n\u201cKo\u015ful yerine getirilmezse\u2026 her iki m\u00fclk de, bak\u0131m hizmetini 11 y\u0131l boyunca sa\u011flayan gelin han\u0131ma devredilecektir.\u201d\n\nO an\u2026 kalbim duracak gibi oldu.\n\nOda tamamen sessizdi.\n\nG\u00f6r\u00fcmcem bana bakt\u0131.\n\n\u0130lk kez\u2026 o kusursuz maskenin alt\u0131nda ger\u00e7ek bir duygu g\u00f6rd\u00fcm.\n\nKorku.\n\n\u201cBu sa\u00e7mal\u0131k!\u201d diye patlad\u0131. \u201cBenim bir hayat\u0131m var! \u0130\u015fim var! Sosyal \u00e7evrem var! Ben\u2026 ben bunu yapamam!\u201d\n\nAvukat omuz silkti.\n\n\u201cBu merhumenin a\u00e7\u0131k iradesidir.\u201d\n\nHerkesin bak\u0131\u015flar\u0131 bu kez bana d\u00f6nd\u00fc.\n\nBen h\u00e2l\u00e2 ayaktayd\u0131m. Ellerim titriyordu ama i\u00e7imde\u2026 tuhaf bir sakinlik vard\u0131.\n\n11 y\u0131l boyunca ilk kez\u2026 hi\u00e7bir \u015fey yapmak zorunda de\u011fildim.\n\nSe\u00e7im art\u0131k benim de\u011fildi.\n\nSe\u00e7im\u2026 onundu.\n\nG\u00f6r\u00fcmcem sinirle \u00e7antas\u0131n\u0131 kapt\u0131.\n\n\u201cBu sa\u00e7mal\u0131\u011f\u0131 kabul etmiyorum!\u201d dedi. \u201cGerekirse dava a\u00e7ar\u0131m!\u201d\n\nAvukat ba\u015f\u0131n\u0131 sallad\u0131.\n\n\u201cElbette a\u00e7abilirsiniz. Ancak vasiyet hukuken olduk\u00e7a sa\u011flam haz\u0131rlanm\u0131\u015f.\u201d\n\nKad\u0131n bir \u015fey s\u00f6ylemeden kap\u0131ya y\u00f6neldi.\n\nTam \u00e7\u0131karken bir an durdu\u2026 arkas\u0131n\u0131 d\u00f6nmeden konu\u015ftu:\n\n\u201cSenin y\u00fcz\u00fcnden\u2026\u201d dedi di\u015flerini s\u0131karak.\n\nAma c\u00fcmlesini tamamlayamad\u0131.\n\n\u00c7\u00fcnk\u00fc ikimiz de biliyorduk.\n\nBu benim y\u00fcz\u00fcmden de\u011fildi.\n\nBu\u2026 onun hi\u00e7 orada olmamas\u0131n\u0131n sonucuydu.\n\nKap\u0131 sert\u00e7e kapand\u0131.\n\nVe o an\u2026 ilk kez derin bir nefes ald\u0131m.\n\n\u2014\n\nG\u00fcnler ge\u00e7ti.\n\nG\u00f6r\u00fcmcem dava a\u00e7mad\u0131.\n\nAma \u015fart\u0131 da kabul etmedi.\n\nNe arad\u0131, ne sordu.\n\nSanki hi\u00e7 var olmam\u0131\u015f\u0131z gibi hayat\u0131na devam etti.\n\nTam bir y\u0131l beklemeye bile gerek kalmad\u0131.\n\n\u00dc\u00e7\u00fcnc\u00fc ay\u0131n sonunda, avukattan resmi bildirim geldi.\n\nKo\u015ful yerine getirilmedi\u011fi i\u00e7in\u2026\n\n\u0130stanbul ve \u0130zmir\u2019deki iki evin m\u00fclkiyeti bana devrediliyordu.\n\nBelgeyi elime ald\u0131\u011f\u0131mda\u2026 uzun s\u00fcre bakakald\u0131m.\n\nG\u00f6zlerim doldu.\n\nAma bu sefer\u2026 ac\u0131dan de\u011fil.\n\nAnlamaktan.\n\nO kad\u0131n\u2026 son nefesine kadar konu\u015famam\u0131\u015ft\u0131 belki.\n\nAma susmam\u0131\u015ft\u0131.\n\nBeni g\u00f6rm\u00fc\u015ft\u00fc.\n\nHer gece uyan\u0131\u015f\u0131m\u0131\u2026\n\nHer yorgunlu\u011fumu\u2026\n\nHer vazge\u00e7i\u015fimi\u2026\n\nVe belki de\u2026 kendi k\u0131z\u0131n\u0131n eksikli\u011fini.\n\nO bana 5.000 lira b\u0131rakmam\u0131\u015ft\u0131.\n\nO bana\u2026 bir s\u0131nav b\u0131rakm\u0131\u015ft\u0131.\n\nVe asl\u0131nda\u2026\n\nGer\u00e7e\u011fi ortaya \u00e7\u0131karm\u0131\u015ft\u0131.\n\n\u2014\n\nAylar sonra, \u0130stanbul\u2019daki evin balkonunda otururken \u00e7ay\u0131m\u0131 i\u00e7iyordum.\n\nHava sakindi.\n\n\u0130\u00e7im de \u00f6yle.\n\nTelefonum \u00e7ald\u0131.\n\nNumaray\u0131 tan\u0131mad\u0131m.\n\nA\u00e7t\u0131m.\n\nKar\u015f\u0131dan tan\u0131d\u0131k bir ses geldi.\n\nG\u00f6r\u00fcmcem.\n\nUzun bir sessizlik oldu.\n\nSonra yava\u015f\u00e7a konu\u015ftu:\n\n\u201c\u2026Ben yapamazd\u0131m,\u201d dedi.\n\nSesi ilk kez\u2026 k\u0131r\u0131lm\u0131\u015ft\u0131.\n\n\u201cBiliyorum,\u201d dedim.\n\nBir s\u00fcre daha sustu.\n\nSonra ekledi:\n\n\u201cSen\u2026 ger\u00e7ekten hak etmi\u015fsin.\u201d\n\nTelefon kapand\u0131.\n\nBen telefonu yava\u015f\u00e7a masaya b\u0131rakt\u0131m.\n\nG\u00f6ky\u00fcz\u00fcne bakt\u0131m.\n\nVe i\u00e7imden sadece tek bir \u015fey ge\u00e7ti:\n\n\u201cBen zaten hi\u00e7bir zaman miras i\u00e7in kalmam\u0131\u015ft\u0131m.\u201d\n\nAma bazen\u2026\n\nHayat, en b\u00fcy\u00fck kar\u015f\u0131l\u0131\u011f\u0131\u2026 en ge\u00e7 anda verir.\n\n\n\t\t\t\t<\/dd><\/dl>\n\t\t\t<br style='clear: both' \/>\n\t\t<\/div>\n\n","protected":false},"excerpt":{"rendered":"","protected":false},"author":1,"featured_media":5772,"comment_status":"open","ping_status":"open","sticky":false,"template":"","format":"standard","meta":{"footnotes":""},"categories":[9],"tags":[],"class_list":["post-5771","post","type-post","status-publish","format-standard","has-post-thumbnail","hentry","category-foto-galeri"],"_links":{"self":[{"href":"https:\/\/bilgitarif.com\/yeni\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/posts\/5771","targetHints":{"allow":["GET"]}}],"collection":[{"href":"https:\/\/bilgitarif.com\/yeni\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/posts"}],"about":[{"href":"https:\/\/bilgitarif.com\/yeni\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/types\/post"}],"author":[{"embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/bilgitarif.com\/yeni\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/users\/1"}],"replies":[{"embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/bilgitarif.com\/yeni\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/comments?post=5771"}],"version-history":[{"count":1,"href":"https:\/\/bilgitarif.com\/yeni\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/posts\/5771\/revisions"}],"predecessor-version":[{"id":5774,"href":"https:\/\/bilgitarif.com\/yeni\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/posts\/5771\/revisions\/5774"}],"wp:featuredmedia":[{"embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/bilgitarif.com\/yeni\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/media\/5772"}],"wp:attachment":[{"href":"https:\/\/bilgitarif.com\/yeni\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/media?parent=5771"}],"wp:term":[{"taxonomy":"category","embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/bilgitarif.com\/yeni\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/categories?post=5771"},{"taxonomy":"post_tag","embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/bilgitarif.com\/yeni\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/tags?post=5771"}],"curies":[{"name":"wp","href":"https:\/\/api.w.org\/{rel}","templated":true}]}}