{"id":5713,"date":"2026-04-22T23:51:59","date_gmt":"2026-04-22T23:51:59","guid":{"rendered":"https:\/\/bilgitarif.com\/yeni\/?p=5713"},"modified":"2026-04-22T23:51:59","modified_gmt":"2026-04-22T23:51:59","slug":"erkek-arkadasimin-benim-hakkimda-konusup-cocuk-sahibi-olamayacagimla-alay-ettigini-tesadufen-duydum","status":"publish","type":"post","link":"https:\/\/bilgitarif.com\/yeni\/erkek-arkadasimin-benim-hakkimda-konusup-cocuk-sahibi-olamayacagimla-alay-ettigini-tesadufen-duydum\/","title":{"rendered":"Erkek arkada\u015f\u0131m\u0131n benim hakk\u0131mda konu\u015fup \u00e7ocuk sahibi olamayaca\u011f\u0131mla alay etti\u011fini tesad\u00fcfen duydum"},"content":{"rendered":"\n\t\t<style type=\"text\/css\">\n\t\t\t#gallery-1 {\n\t\t\t\tmargin: auto;\n\t\t\t}\n\t\t\t#gallery-1 .gallery-item {\n\t\t\t\tfloat: left;\n\t\t\t\tmargin-top: 10px;\n\t\t\t\ttext-align: center;\n\t\t\t\twidth: 33%;\n\t\t\t}\n\t\t\t#gallery-1 img {\n\t\t\t\tborder: 2px solid #cfcfcf;\n\t\t\t}\n\t\t\t#gallery-1 .gallery-caption {\n\t\t\t\tmargin-left: 0;\n\t\t\t}\n\t\t\t\/* see gallery_shortcode() in wp-includes\/media.php *\/\n\t\t<\/style>\n\t\t<div id='gallery-1' class='gallery galleryid-5713 gallery-columns-3 gallery-size-thumbnail'><dl class='gallery-item'>\n\t\t\t<dt class='gallery-icon landscape'>\n\t\t\t\t<a href='https:\/\/bilgitarif.com\/yeni\/erkek-arkadasimin-benim-hakkimda-konusup-cocuk-sahibi-olamayacagimla-alay-ettigini-tesadufen-duydum\/blg-63\/'><img loading=\"lazy\" decoding=\"async\" width=\"150\" height=\"150\" src=\"https:\/\/bilgitarif.com\/yeni\/wp-content\/uploads\/2026\/04\/blg-15-150x150.jpg\" class=\"attachment-thumbnail size-thumbnail\" alt=\"\" aria-describedby=\"gallery-1-5714\" \/><\/a>\n\t\t\t<\/dt>\n\t\t\t\t<dd class='wp-caption-text gallery-caption' id='gallery-1-5714'>\n\t\t\t\tErkek arkada\u015f\u0131m\u0131n benim hakk\u0131mda konu\u015fup \u00e7ocuk sahibi olamayaca\u011f\u0131mla alay etti\u011fini tesad\u00fcfen duydum: y\u0131k\u0131lm\u0131\u015ft\u0131m, ama sonras\u0131nda yapt\u0131\u011f\u0131m \u015fey onun hayat\u0131n\u0131 sonsuza kadar de\u011fi\u015ftirdi.\n\t\t\t\t<\/dd><\/dl><dl class='gallery-item'>\n\t\t\t<dt class='gallery-icon landscape'>\n\t\t\t\t<a href='https:\/\/bilgitarif.com\/yeni\/erkek-arkadasimin-benim-hakkimda-konusup-cocuk-sahibi-olamayacagimla-alay-ettigini-tesadufen-duydum\/erkek\/'><img loading=\"lazy\" decoding=\"async\" width=\"150\" height=\"150\" src=\"https:\/\/bilgitarif.com\/yeni\/wp-content\/uploads\/2026\/04\/erkek-150x150.jpg\" class=\"attachment-thumbnail size-thumbnail\" alt=\"\" aria-describedby=\"gallery-1-5715\" \/><\/a>\n\t\t\t<\/dt>\n\t\t\t\t<dd class='wp-caption-text gallery-caption' id='gallery-1-5715'>\n\t\t\t\tBe\u015f y\u0131ld\u0131r birlikteydik. Birlikte ya\u015f\u0131yorduk ve evlenip \u00e7ocuk sahibi olmay\u0131 hayal ediyorduk. S\u0131k s\u0131k \u015f\u00f6yle derdi: \u201cKa\u00e7 \u00e7ocu\u011fumuz olur bilmiyorum ama en \u00e7ok bir k\u0131z\u0131m olsun istiyorum.\u201d\n\nNe yaz\u0131k ki sa\u011fl\u0131k sorunlar\u0131m oldu\u011fu ortaya \u00e7\u0131kt\u0131 ve doktor bana muhtemelen \u00e7ocuk sahibi olamayaca\u011f\u0131m\u0131 s\u00f6yledi. Erkek arkada\u015f\u0131m bana destek oldu, ancak bundan sonra ne zaman evlilik konusunu a\u00e7sam konuyu de\u011fi\u015ftiriyor ve eskisi gibi olmad\u0131\u011f\u0131n\u0131 fark ediyordum.\n\nBir g\u00fcn ailesinin evinde ak\u015fam yeme\u011findeydik, o s\u0131rada onunla ailesi aras\u0131ndaki konu\u015fmay\u0131 duydum. Mutfaktayd\u0131m, halas\u0131 ona \u015f\u00f6yle sordu: \u201cPeki, ona ne zaman evlenme teklif edeceksin?\u201d\n\nOldu\u011fum yerde kald\u0131m, bana s\u00fcrpriz yapaca\u011f\u0131n\u0131 d\u00fc\u015f\u00fcnd\u00fcm. Ama o \u015f\u00f6yle cevap verdi: \u201cEkmek vermeyen bir f\u0131r\u0131n\u0131 neden sat\u0131n alay\u0131m?\u201d ve sanki \u015fakaym\u0131\u015f gibi g\u00fclmeye ba\u015flad\u0131.\n\nAnne babas\u0131 ve halas\u0131 sessiz kald\u0131, ne demek istedi\u011fini anlamad\u0131lar.\n\nBen ise duvar\u0131n arkas\u0131nda durmu\u015f, duyduklar\u0131mla y\u0131k\u0131lm\u0131\u015ft\u0131m. Kulaklar\u0131ma inanamad\u0131m. Sonra yapt\u0131\u011f\u0131m \u015fey onun hayat\u0131n\u0131 sonsuza kadar de\u011fi\u015ftirdi.\n\n\n\t\t\t\t<\/dd><\/dl><dl class='gallery-item'>\n\t\t\t<dt class='gallery-icon landscape'>\n\t\t\t\t<a href='https:\/\/bilgitarif.com\/yeni\/erkek-arkadasimin-benim-hakkimda-konusup-cocuk-sahibi-olamayacagimla-alay-ettigini-tesadufen-duydum\/arkaasim\/'><img loading=\"lazy\" decoding=\"async\" width=\"150\" height=\"150\" src=\"https:\/\/bilgitarif.com\/yeni\/wp-content\/uploads\/2026\/04\/arkaasim-150x150.jpeg\" class=\"attachment-thumbnail size-thumbnail\" alt=\"\" aria-describedby=\"gallery-1-5716\" \/><\/a>\n\t\t\t<\/dt>\n\t\t\t\t<dd class='wp-caption-text gallery-caption' id='gallery-1-5716'>\n\t\t\t\tO gece uyumad\u0131m.\n\nA\u011flamad\u0131m da, sadece d\u00fc\u015f\u00fcnd\u00fcm.\n\nErtesi g\u00fcn her \u015feyi \u00e7oktan hesaplam\u0131\u015ft\u0131m: haz\u0131rlad\u0131\u011f\u0131m t\u00fcm yemekleri, y\u0131kad\u0131\u011f\u0131m \u00e7ama\u015f\u0131rlar\u0131, temizledi\u011fim evi, onu dinlemek ve desteklemek i\u00e7in harcad\u0131\u011f\u0131m saatleri.\n\nErkek arkada\u015f\u0131m\u0131n benim hakk\u0131mda konu\u015fup \u00e7ocuk sahibi olamayaca\u011f\u0131mla alay etti\u011fini tesad\u00fcfen duydum: y\u0131k\u0131lm\u0131\u015ft\u0131m, ama sonras\u0131nda yapt\u0131\u011f\u0131m \u015fey onun hayat\u0131n\u0131 sonsuza kadar de\u011fi\u015ftirdi.\n\nRakam g\u00fcl\u00fcn\u00e7t\u00fc\u2026 iyi anlamda.\n\nOna g\u00f6sterip s\u00f6yledim: \u201cBu bana bor\u00e7lu oldu\u011fun miktar.\u201d\n\n\u201cBu bir \u015faka m\u0131?\u201d diye \u015fa\u015fk\u0131nl\u0131kla sordu.\n\nErkek arkada\u015f\u0131m\u0131n benim hakk\u0131mda konu\u015fup \u00e7ocuk sahibi olamayaca\u011f\u0131mla alay etti\u011fini tesad\u00fcfen duydum: y\u0131k\u0131lm\u0131\u015ft\u0131m, ama sonras\u0131nda yapt\u0131\u011f\u0131m \u015fey onun hayat\u0131n\u0131 sonsuza kadar de\u011fi\u015ftirdi.\n\nBir avukata dan\u0131\u015fm\u0131\u015ft\u0131m: be\u015f y\u0131l birlikte ya\u015fad\u0131ktan sonra haklar\u0131m g\u00fc\u00e7l\u00fcyd\u00fc ve bana her \u015feyi geri \u00f6demek zorunda kald\u0131.\n\nBug\u00fcn yaln\u0131z ve \u00f6zg\u00fcr ya\u015f\u0131yorum, ne yapaca\u011f\u0131ma kendim karar veriyorum ve her davran\u0131\u015f\u0131 takdir ediyorum \u00e7\u00fcnk\u00fc bu benim se\u00e7imim, bir zorunluluk de\u011fil.\n\n\n\t\t\t\t<\/dd><\/dl><br style=\"clear: both\" \/>\n\t\t<\/div>\n\n","protected":false},"excerpt":{"rendered":"","protected":false},"author":1,"featured_media":5714,"comment_status":"open","ping_status":"open","sticky":false,"template":"","format":"standard","meta":{"footnotes":""},"categories":[9],"tags":[],"class_list":["post-5713","post","type-post","status-publish","format-standard","has-post-thumbnail","hentry","category-foto-galeri"],"_links":{"self":[{"href":"https:\/\/bilgitarif.com\/yeni\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/posts\/5713","targetHints":{"allow":["GET"]}}],"collection":[{"href":"https:\/\/bilgitarif.com\/yeni\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/posts"}],"about":[{"href":"https:\/\/bilgitarif.com\/yeni\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/types\/post"}],"author":[{"embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/bilgitarif.com\/yeni\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/users\/1"}],"replies":[{"embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/bilgitarif.com\/yeni\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/comments?post=5713"}],"version-history":[{"count":1,"href":"https:\/\/bilgitarif.com\/yeni\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/posts\/5713\/revisions"}],"predecessor-version":[{"id":5717,"href":"https:\/\/bilgitarif.com\/yeni\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/posts\/5713\/revisions\/5717"}],"wp:featuredmedia":[{"embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/bilgitarif.com\/yeni\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/media\/5714"}],"wp:attachment":[{"href":"https:\/\/bilgitarif.com\/yeni\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/media?parent=5713"}],"wp:term":[{"taxonomy":"category","embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/bilgitarif.com\/yeni\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/categories?post=5713"},{"taxonomy":"post_tag","embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/bilgitarif.com\/yeni\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/tags?post=5713"}],"curies":[{"name":"wp","href":"https:\/\/api.w.org\/{rel}","templated":true}]}}