{"id":4228,"date":"2025-08-11T11:34:30","date_gmt":"2025-08-11T11:34:30","guid":{"rendered":"https:\/\/bilgitarif.com\/yeni\/?p=4228"},"modified":"2025-08-11T11:34:30","modified_gmt":"2025-08-11T11:34:30","slug":"kizim-butun-gun-cocuguna-bakmama-ragmen","status":"publish","type":"post","link":"https:\/\/bilgitarif.com\/yeni\/kizim-butun-gun-cocuguna-bakmama-ragmen\/","title":{"rendered":"K\u0131z\u0131m, b\u00fct\u00fcn g\u00fcn \u00e7ocu\u011funa bakmama ra\u011fmen"},"content":{"rendered":"\n\t\t<style type=\"text\/css\">\n\t\t\t#gallery-1 {\n\t\t\t\tmargin: auto;\n\t\t\t}\n\t\t\t#gallery-1 .gallery-item {\n\t\t\t\tfloat: left;\n\t\t\t\tmargin-top: 10px;\n\t\t\t\ttext-align: center;\n\t\t\t\twidth: 33%;\n\t\t\t}\n\t\t\t#gallery-1 img {\n\t\t\t\tborder: 2px solid #cfcfcf;\n\t\t\t}\n\t\t\t#gallery-1 .gallery-caption {\n\t\t\t\tmargin-left: 0;\n\t\t\t}\n\t\t\t\/* see gallery_shortcode() in wp-includes\/media.php *\/\n\t\t<\/style>\n\t\t<div id='gallery-1' class='gallery galleryid-4228 gallery-columns-3 gallery-size-thumbnail'><dl class='gallery-item'>\n\t\t\t<dt class='gallery-icon landscape'>\n\t\t\t\t<a href='https:\/\/bilgitarif.com\/yeni\/kizim-butun-gun-cocuguna-bakmama-ragmen\/fd-39\/'><img loading=\"lazy\" decoding=\"async\" width=\"150\" height=\"108\" src=\"https:\/\/bilgitarif.com\/yeni\/wp-content\/uploads\/2025\/08\/fd-3-150x108.webp\" class=\"attachment-thumbnail size-thumbnail\" alt=\"\" aria-describedby=\"gallery-1-4229\" \/><\/a>\n\t\t\t<\/dt>\n\t\t\t\t<dd class='wp-caption-text gallery-caption' id='gallery-1-4229'>\n\t\t\t\tK\u0131z\u0131m, b\u00fct\u00fcn g\u00fcn \u00e7ocu\u011funa bakmama ra\u011fmen buzdolab\u0131ndaki yiyeceklere dokunmam\u0131 bile yasaklad\u0131: \u0130\u015fte o zaman ona asla unutamayaca\u011f\u0131 ger\u00e7ek bir ders vermeye karar verdim. ????K\u0131z\u0131m\u0131n bir o\u011flu oldu\u011funda \u00e7ok sevindim. Ama bu sevin\u00e7 h\u0131zla endi\u015feye d\u00f6n\u00fc\u015ft\u00fc: S\u00fcrekli yan\u0131nda olmas\u0131n\u0131 gerektiren zorlu bir i\u015fi vard\u0131 ve uygun bir do\u011fum izni alam\u0131yordu. Bebe\u011fi bak\u0131ms\u0131z b\u0131rakamazd\u0131m \u2013 memnuniyetle yard\u0131m etmeyi kabul ettim. Her g\u00fcn sabah sekizde evine gelir ve ak\u015fama kadar bebekle kal\u0131rd\u0131m. Onu y\u0131kar, besler, uyutur, \u00e7ama\u015f\u0131r y\u0131kar, \u00fct\u00fc masas\u0131 en iyi arkada\u015f\u0131m olurdu ve g\u00fcnl\u00fck y\u00fcr\u00fcy\u00fc\u015fler \u2013 bir rit\u00fcel. Her \u015fey her zamanki gibi devam etti, ta ki bir g\u00fcn her \u015fey de\u011fi\u015fene kadar. O g\u00fcn, uzun bir y\u00fcr\u00fcy\u00fc\u015ften sonra yorgun bir \u015feyler at\u0131\u015ft\u0131rmaya karar verdim. Buzdolab\u0131n\u0131 a\u00e7t\u0131m, biraz peynir ve bir elma ald\u0131m. Ama sonra k\u0131z\u0131mdan beklenmedik bir \u015fey duydum: \u2014 Buzdolab\u0131ndan yiyecek almaya cesaret etme. Bunlar\u0131n hepsi bizim param\u0131zla sat\u0131n al\u0131nd\u0131. \u015ea\u015fk\u0131na d\u00f6nd\u00fcm. \u2014 Ama ben her g\u00fcn, b\u00fct\u00fcn g\u00fcn buraday\u0131m\u2026 A\u00e7 m\u0131 kalmam gerekiyor? \u2014 Kendi yeme\u011fini al ve yan\u0131nda getir. Biz bir kafeterya de\u011filiz, \u2014 diye so\u011fuk bir \u015fekilde cevaplad\u0131 ve odas\u0131na gitti. O anda k\u0131z\u0131m\u0131n bencil b\u00fcy\u00fcd\u00fc\u011f\u00fcn\u00fc ve yard\u0131m\u0131m\u0131 hi\u00e7 takdir etmedi\u011fini fark ettim. Bu y\u00fczden ona asla unutamayaca\u011f\u0131 ger\u00e7ek bir ders vermeye karar verdim. Umar\u0131m do\u011fru olan\u0131 yapm\u0131\u015f\u0131md\u0131r\u2026 D\u00fc\u015f\u00fcncelerimi ve hislerimi foto\u011fraf\u0131n alt\u0131ndaki yaz\u0131da anlatt\u0131m\n\t\t\t\t<\/dd><\/dl><dl class='gallery-item'>\n\t\t\t<dt class='gallery-icon landscape'>\n\t\t\t\t<a href='https:\/\/bilgitarif.com\/yeni\/kizim-butun-gun-cocuguna-bakmama-ragmen\/kizim\/'><img loading=\"lazy\" decoding=\"async\" width=\"150\" height=\"150\" src=\"https:\/\/bilgitarif.com\/yeni\/wp-content\/uploads\/2025\/08\/kizim-150x150.jpeg\" class=\"attachment-thumbnail size-thumbnail\" alt=\"\" aria-describedby=\"gallery-1-4230\" \/><\/a>\n\t\t\t<\/dt>\n\t\t\t\t<dd class='wp-caption-text gallery-caption' id='gallery-1-4230'>\n\t\t\t\tDo\u011fum sonras\u0131 annelik, bir kad\u0131n\u0131n hayat\u0131ndaki en b\u00fcy\u00fck d\u00f6n\u00fcm noktalar\u0131ndan biridir. Bu s\u00fcre\u00e7te hem bedenen hem de ruhen yorulan anneler i\u00e7in en b\u00fcy\u00fck destek\u00e7iler genellikle kendi anneleridir. Onlar, torunlar\u0131na bakarak, yemek yaparak veya ev i\u015flerine yard\u0131m ederek yeni anneye nefes alacak bir alan a\u00e7arlar. Bu destek, bazen o kadar do\u011fal bir hal al\u0131r ki, hem veren hem de alan i\u00e7in g\u00f6r\u00fcnmez bir hizmete d\u00f6n\u00fc\u015febilir. Fakat annelik, bir anne ve k\u0131z\u0131 aras\u0131ndaki sevgi ba\u011f\u0131n\u0131 her zaman daha da g\u00fc\u00e7lendirse de, bazen bu ba\u011f\u0131n hassas dengesini sarsan durumlar da ya\u015fanabilir. \u00d6zellikle gen\u00e7 neslin yo\u011fun ve h\u0131zl\u0131 tempolu ya\u015fam\u0131, deneyimli anne-baban\u0131n fedakarl\u0131klar\u0131n\u0131 g\u00f6zden ka\u00e7\u0131rmas\u0131na neden olabilir. Bir anne i\u00e7in torununa bakmak, s\u0131n\u0131rs\u0131z bir sevginin ve fedakarl\u0131\u011f\u0131n ifadesiyken, bu durumun bir \u201cg\u00f6rev\u201d veya \u201czorunluluk\u201d olarak g\u00f6r\u00fclmesi, derin bir hayal k\u0131r\u0131kl\u0131\u011f\u0131na yol a\u00e7abilir. Bir annenin en b\u00fcy\u00fck arzusu, ne kadar yorucu olursa olsun, \u00e7ocu\u011funa ve torununa yard\u0131m edebilmektir. Ancak bu yard\u0131m, sayg\u0131 ve \u015f\u00fckranla kar\u015f\u0131lanmad\u0131\u011f\u0131nda, bir anne i\u00e7in hizmet\u00e7i gibi hissetmeye ba\u015flamak ka\u00e7\u0131n\u0131lmazd\u0131r. Sevgi, her zaman en b\u00fcy\u00fck hediyedir. Ancak bu hediyenin de\u011ferini bilmek, ona kar\u015f\u0131 sayg\u0131l\u0131 olmak ve fedakarl\u0131klar\u0131 fark etmek de bir o kadar \u00f6nemlidir. Bir anne ve b\u00fcy\u00fckanne olarak, en \u00e7ok ihtiyac\u0131m\u0131z olan \u015fey, paha bi\u00e7ilemez hizmetlerimizin kar\u015f\u0131l\u0131\u011f\u0131nda bir \u201cte\u015fekk\u00fcr\u201d ve \u201csevgiyle sar\u0131lma\u201dd\u0131r. Aksi takdirde, en derin sevgi bile zamanla bir siteme, bir hayal k\u0131r\u0131kl\u0131\u011f\u0131na d\u00f6n\u00fc\u015febilir. \u00c7\u00fcnk\u00fc anneler, hizmet\u00e7i de\u011fildir. Onlar, hayatlar\u0131n\u0131 \u00e7ocuklar\u0131na ve torunlar\u0131na adam\u0131\u015f, en b\u00fcy\u00fck sayg\u0131y\u0131 ve sevgiyi hak eden kahramanlard\u0131r.\n\n\n\t\t\t\t<\/dd><\/dl>\n\t\t\t<br style='clear: both' \/>\n\t\t<\/div>\n\n","protected":false},"excerpt":{"rendered":"","protected":false},"author":1,"featured_media":4229,"comment_status":"open","ping_status":"open","sticky":false,"template":"","format":"standard","meta":{"footnotes":""},"categories":[9],"tags":[],"class_list":["post-4228","post","type-post","status-publish","format-standard","has-post-thumbnail","hentry","category-foto-galeri"],"_links":{"self":[{"href":"https:\/\/bilgitarif.com\/yeni\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/posts\/4228","targetHints":{"allow":["GET"]}}],"collection":[{"href":"https:\/\/bilgitarif.com\/yeni\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/posts"}],"about":[{"href":"https:\/\/bilgitarif.com\/yeni\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/types\/post"}],"author":[{"embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/bilgitarif.com\/yeni\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/users\/1"}],"replies":[{"embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/bilgitarif.com\/yeni\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/comments?post=4228"}],"version-history":[{"count":1,"href":"https:\/\/bilgitarif.com\/yeni\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/posts\/4228\/revisions"}],"predecessor-version":[{"id":4231,"href":"https:\/\/bilgitarif.com\/yeni\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/posts\/4228\/revisions\/4231"}],"wp:featuredmedia":[{"embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/bilgitarif.com\/yeni\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/media\/4229"}],"wp:attachment":[{"href":"https:\/\/bilgitarif.com\/yeni\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/media?parent=4228"}],"wp:term":[{"taxonomy":"category","embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/bilgitarif.com\/yeni\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/categories?post=4228"},{"taxonomy":"post_tag","embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/bilgitarif.com\/yeni\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/tags?post=4228"}],"curies":[{"name":"wp","href":"https:\/\/api.w.org\/{rel}","templated":true}]}}