{"id":3991,"date":"2025-07-29T22:25:04","date_gmt":"2025-07-29T22:25:04","guid":{"rendered":"https:\/\/bilgitarif.com\/yeni\/?p=3991"},"modified":"2025-07-29T22:25:04","modified_gmt":"2025-07-29T22:25:04","slug":"kocam-ve-ben-iki-cocugumuz-icin-bir-bebek-bakicisi-tuttuk","status":"publish","type":"post","link":"https:\/\/bilgitarif.com\/yeni\/kocam-ve-ben-iki-cocugumuz-icin-bir-bebek-bakicisi-tuttuk\/","title":{"rendered":"Kocam ve ben iki \u00e7ocu\u011fumuz i\u00e7in bir bebek bak\u0131c\u0131s\u0131 tuttuk"},"content":{"rendered":"\n\t\t<style type=\"text\/css\">\n\t\t\t#gallery-1 {\n\t\t\t\tmargin: auto;\n\t\t\t}\n\t\t\t#gallery-1 .gallery-item {\n\t\t\t\tfloat: left;\n\t\t\t\tmargin-top: 10px;\n\t\t\t\ttext-align: center;\n\t\t\t\twidth: 33%;\n\t\t\t}\n\t\t\t#gallery-1 img {\n\t\t\t\tborder: 2px solid #cfcfcf;\n\t\t\t}\n\t\t\t#gallery-1 .gallery-caption {\n\t\t\t\tmargin-left: 0;\n\t\t\t}\n\t\t\t\/* see gallery_shortcode() in wp-includes\/media.php *\/\n\t\t<\/style>\n\t\t<div id='gallery-1' class='gallery galleryid-3991 gallery-columns-3 gallery-size-thumbnail'><dl class='gallery-item'>\n\t\t\t<dt class='gallery-icon landscape'>\n\t\t\t\t<a href='https:\/\/bilgitarif.com\/yeni\/kocam-ve-ben-iki-cocugumuz-icin-bir-bebek-bakicisi-tuttuk\/d-2-19\/'><img loading=\"lazy\" decoding=\"async\" width=\"150\" height=\"150\" src=\"https:\/\/bilgitarif.com\/yeni\/wp-content\/uploads\/2025\/07\/d-2-2-150x150.jpg\" class=\"attachment-thumbnail size-thumbnail\" alt=\"\" aria-describedby=\"gallery-1-3992\" \/><\/a>\n\t\t\t<\/dt>\n\t\t\t\t<dd class='wp-caption-text gallery-caption' id='gallery-1-3992'>\n\t\t\t\t\u0130\u00e7g\u00fcd\u00fclerim hemen bana bir \u015feylerin yanl\u0131\u015f oldu\u011funu s\u00f6yledi. Ertesi sabah eski dad\u0131 kameram\u0131z\u0131 \u00e7\u0131kard\u0131m ve d\u0131\u015far\u0131 \u00e7\u0131kmadan \u00f6nce gizlice oturma odas\u0131na kurdum.\nBir saatten az bir s\u00fcre sonra, yay\u0131n\u0131 kontrol ettim\u2026 ve \u201ci\u015f i\u00e7in \u00e7\u0131kan\u201d kocam\u0131 eve gizlice girerken g\u00f6rd\u00fcm.\nAma sonra g\u00f6rd\u00fcklerim hi\u00e7 de bekledi\u011fim gibi de\u011fildi.Bana yalan s\u00f6ylemi\u015flerdi.G\u00f6r\u00fcnt\u00fclerde her\u015fey var..\n\n\t\t\t\t<\/dd><\/dl><dl class='gallery-item'>\n\t\t\t<dt class='gallery-icon portrait'>\n\t\t\t\t<a href='https:\/\/bilgitarif.com\/yeni\/kocam-ve-ben-iki-cocugumuz-icin-bir-bebek-bakicisi-tuttuk\/kocam-vw-ben\/'><img loading=\"lazy\" decoding=\"async\" width=\"150\" height=\"150\" src=\"https:\/\/bilgitarif.com\/yeni\/wp-content\/uploads\/2025\/07\/kocam-vw-ben-150x150.jpg\" class=\"attachment-thumbnail size-thumbnail\" alt=\"\" aria-describedby=\"gallery-1-3993\" \/><\/a>\n\t\t\t<\/dt>\n\t\t\t\t<dd class='wp-caption-text gallery-caption' id='gallery-1-3993'>\n\t\t\t\tErtesi sabah, i\u015fe gitmeden \u00f6nce, \u00e7ocuklar\u0131m\u0131z bebekken beri kullanmad\u0131\u011f\u0131m\u0131z eski dad\u0131 kameras\u0131n\u0131 yeniden kurmaya karar verdim. Ayr\u0131lmadan \u00f6nce gizlice oturma odas\u0131na kurdum. \u0130\u015fe ba\u015flad\u0131ktan bir saatten az bir s\u00fcre sonra canl\u0131 g\u00f6r\u00fcnt\u00fcleri kontrol ettim. Kalbim duracak gibi oldu. Kocam, s\u00f6zde i\u015fe gitmi\u015fti, eve geri d\u00f6n\u00fcyordu. Dad\u0131ya yakla\u015ft\u0131 ve midemin buland\u0131\u011f\u0131n\u0131 hissettim.\nHala \u015foktayd\u0131m ama onu dinlemek i\u00e7in oturdum. Dad\u0131y\u0131 sordum. \u201cHer \u015feye o da benim kadar \u015fa\u015f\u0131rm\u0131\u015ft\u0131,\u201d dedi. \u201cHer \u015feyin ne kadar garip sonu\u00e7land\u0131\u011f\u0131n\u0131 d\u00fc\u015f\u00fcn\u00fcrsek, inan\u0131lmaz anlay\u0131\u015fl\u0131yd\u0131.\u201d\nYava\u015f\u00e7a ba\u015f\u0131m\u0131 sallad\u0131m. \u201cOna bir \u00f6z\u00fcr bor\u00e7luyum. Ve\u2026 her \u015feyi bir arada tutmaya \u00e7al\u0131\u015ft\u0131\u011f\u0131n i\u00e7in te\u015fekk\u00fcr ederim. Ke\u015fke benimle daha \u00f6nce konu\u015fsayd\u0131n.\u201d\n\u201cBiliyorum,\u201d dedi yumu\u015fak bir sesle. \u201c\u00dczg\u00fcn\u00fcm. Art\u0131k s\u0131r yok. Birlikteyiz.\u201d\nO gece, sonunda ka\u00e7\u0131nd\u0131\u011f\u0131m\u0131z konu\u015fmay\u0131 yapt\u0131k. Ac\u0131 vericiydi ama ayn\u0131 zamanda bizi yak\u0131nla\u015ft\u0131rd\u0131. Sessizli\u011fin ve varsay\u0131mlar\u0131n evlili\u011fimizde nas\u0131l gereksiz yere gerginlik yaratt\u0131\u011f\u0131n\u0131 ve a\u00e7\u0131k ve d\u00fcr\u00fcst kalman\u0131n ne kadar \u00f6nemli oldu\u011funu konu\u015ftuk.\nBilmeden aile gerginli\u011fimizin ortas\u0131na \u00e7ekilen dad\u0131, beklenmedik bir de\u011fi\u015fim kataliz\u00f6r\u00fc oldu. \u0130kimiz de yanl\u0131\u015f anla\u015f\u0131lma i\u00e7in ondan \u00f6z\u00fcr diledik ve durumu nezaketle ele ald\u0131\u011f\u0131 i\u00e7in ona te\u015fekk\u00fcr ettik. Onu sadece bir bebek bak\u0131c\u0131s\u0131 olarak de\u011fil, ayn\u0131 zamanda ger\u00e7ekten g\u00fcvendi\u011fimiz biri olarak tutmaya karar verdik. Sakin ve \u015fefkatli yap\u0131s\u0131, kafa kar\u0131\u015ft\u0131r\u0131c\u0131 bir zamanda ger\u00e7ek bir fark yaratm\u0131\u015ft\u0131.\n\n\n\t\t\t\t<\/dd><\/dl>\n\t\t\t<br style='clear: both' \/>\n\t\t<\/div>\n\n","protected":false},"excerpt":{"rendered":"","protected":false},"author":1,"featured_media":3992,"comment_status":"open","ping_status":"open","sticky":false,"template":"","format":"standard","meta":{"footnotes":""},"categories":[9],"tags":[],"class_list":["post-3991","post","type-post","status-publish","format-standard","has-post-thumbnail","hentry","category-foto-galeri"],"_links":{"self":[{"href":"https:\/\/bilgitarif.com\/yeni\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/posts\/3991","targetHints":{"allow":["GET"]}}],"collection":[{"href":"https:\/\/bilgitarif.com\/yeni\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/posts"}],"about":[{"href":"https:\/\/bilgitarif.com\/yeni\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/types\/post"}],"author":[{"embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/bilgitarif.com\/yeni\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/users\/1"}],"replies":[{"embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/bilgitarif.com\/yeni\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/comments?post=3991"}],"version-history":[{"count":1,"href":"https:\/\/bilgitarif.com\/yeni\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/posts\/3991\/revisions"}],"predecessor-version":[{"id":3994,"href":"https:\/\/bilgitarif.com\/yeni\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/posts\/3991\/revisions\/3994"}],"wp:featuredmedia":[{"embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/bilgitarif.com\/yeni\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/media\/3992"}],"wp:attachment":[{"href":"https:\/\/bilgitarif.com\/yeni\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/media?parent=3991"}],"wp:term":[{"taxonomy":"category","embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/bilgitarif.com\/yeni\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/categories?post=3991"},{"taxonomy":"post_tag","embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/bilgitarif.com\/yeni\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/tags?post=3991"}],"curies":[{"name":"wp","href":"https:\/\/api.w.org\/{rel}","templated":true}]}}