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K\u0131z\u0131m\u0131n baba-k\u0131z dans\u0131ndaki ak\u015fam\u0131n\u0131n g\u00f6zya\u015flar\u0131yla bitece\u011fini hi\u00e7 d\u00fc\u015f\u00fcnmemi\u015ftim; ta ki bir d\u00fczine bordo bereli spor salonuna girip her \u015feyi de\u011fi\u015ftirene kadar. O dans pistinde keder ve gurur bulu\u015ftu\u011funda, sevginin ve sadakatin ne kadar uza\u011fa ula\u015fabilece\u011fini anlad\u0131m. O gece, Kemal\u2019in verdi\u011fi s\u00f6z bir \u015fekilde yolunu bulup bize geri d\u00f6nd\u00fc.<\/p>\n

Birini kaybetti\u011finizde zaman tuhaf davran\u0131r. G\u00fcnler birbirine kar\u0131\u015f\u0131r, ta ki her \u015fey ger\u00e7ekli\u011fin de\u011fi\u015fmi\u015f olmas\u0131n\u0131 dileyerek uyand\u0131\u011f\u0131n\u0131z tek bir uzun sabah gibi hissettirene dek. E\u015fim \u015fehit d\u00fc\u015feli \u00fc\u00e7 ay oldu ama bazen h\u00e2l\u00e2 kap\u0131n\u0131n \u00f6n\u00fcnde botlar\u0131n\u0131 g\u00f6rmeyi bekliyorum. H\u00e2l\u00e2 iki ki\u015filik kahve koyuyorum ve her gece \u00f6n kap\u0131n\u0131n kilidini \u00fc\u00e7 kez kontrol ediyorum, \u00e7\u00fcnk\u00fc o hep \u00f6yle yapard\u0131.<\/p>\n

Yas b\u00f6yle bir \u015feydir: \u00dct\u00fclenmi\u015f elbiseler, fiyonklu ayakkab\u0131lar ve umudunu her \u00f6zel g\u00fcn i\u00e7in giymekte \u0131srar etti\u011fi pembe \u00e7oraplar gibi k\u00fc\u00e7\u00fck ve \u00f6zenli tutan k\u00fc\u00e7\u00fck bir k\u0131z \u00e7ocu\u011fu. \u201cZeynep, yard\u0131ma ihtiyac\u0131n var m\u0131?\u201d diye seslendim koridordan. Hemen cevap vermedi.<\/p>\n

Odas\u0131na g\u00f6z att\u0131\u011f\u0131mda, onu yata\u011f\u0131n \u00fczerinde oturmu\u015f, dolap aynas\u0131ndaki yans\u0131mas\u0131n\u0131 izlerken buldum. Kemal\u2019in ge\u00e7en bahar se\u00e7ti\u011fi elbiseyi giymi\u015fti; hani \u015fu “d\u00f6nen elbise” dedi\u011fi \u015feyi. \u201cAnne?\u201d diye sordu. \u201cBabam benimle gelemiyorsa bu yine de say\u0131l\u0131r m\u0131?\u201d G\u00f6\u011fs\u00fcm s\u0131k\u0131\u015ft\u0131. Yan\u0131na oturdum, yana\u011f\u0131na d\u00fc\u015fen bir bukle sa\u00e7\u0131 nazik\u00e7e kula\u011f\u0131n\u0131n arkas\u0131na ittim. \u201cTabii ki say\u0131l\u0131r tatl\u0131m. Baban senin bu gece \u0131\u015f\u0131ldaman\u0131 isterdi. Biz de tam olarak bunu yapaca\u011f\u0131z.\u201d K\u0131z\u0131m dudaklar\u0131n\u0131 birbirine bast\u0131r\u0131p d\u00fc\u015f\u00fcnd\u00fc. \u201cOnun an\u0131s\u0131n\u0131 ya\u015fatmak istiyorum. Sadece ikimiz olsak bile.\u201d Bo\u011faz\u0131mda d\u00fc\u011f\u00fcmlenen h\u0131\u00e7k\u0131r\u0131\u011f\u0131 yutkunarak ba\u015f\u0131mla onaylad\u0131m. Kemal\u2019in sesi zihnimde yank\u0131land\u0131: \u201cOnu her baba-k\u0131z dans\u0131na g\u00f6t\u00fcrece\u011fim Canan. Her birine. S\u00f6z veriyorum.\u201d Bu s\u00f6z\u00fc o vermi\u015fti, \u015fimdi onu tutmak bana d\u00fc\u015f\u00fcyordu. Ayakkab\u0131lar\u0131n\u0131 bana uzatt\u0131. \u201cBabam\u0131 \u00f6zledim. Ayakkab\u0131lar\u0131m\u0131 o ba\u011flard\u0131.\u201d Diz \u00e7\u00f6kt\u00fcm ve tam Kemal\u2019in yapt\u0131\u011f\u0131 gibi \u00e7ift d\u00fc\u011f\u00fcm atarak ba\u011flad\u0131m. \u201c\u00c7ok g\u00fczel g\u00f6r\u00fcnd\u00fc\u011f\u00fcn\u00fc s\u00f6ylerdi. Ve hakl\u0131 da olurdu, Zeynep k\u0131z\u0131m.\u201d G\u00fcl\u00fcmsedi; eski halinden k\u0131sa bir par\u0131lt\u0131… Sonra kalbinin \u00fczerine \u201cBabas\u0131n\u0131n K\u0131z\u0131\u201d rozetini i\u011fneledi.<\/p>\n

A\u015fa\u011f\u0131 indi\u011fimde \u00e7antam\u0131 ve ceketimi ald\u0131m; tezgah\u0131n \u00fczerindeki \u00f6denmemi\u015f fatura y\u0131\u011f\u0131n\u0131n\u0131 ve neredeyse hi\u00e7 tan\u0131mad\u0131\u011f\u0131m\u0131z kom\u015fular\u0131n getirdi\u011fi yemek kaplar\u0131n\u0131 g\u00f6rmezden geldim. Zeynep kap\u0131da teredd\u00fct etti, sanki imkans\u0131z bir saniyeli\u011fine Kemal belirecek ve onu kollar\u0131na alacakm\u0131\u015f gibi umutla koridora bakt\u0131. Okula gidi\u015f yolumuz sessizdi. Radyoda k\u0131s\u0131k sesle Kemal\u2019in en sevdi\u011fi \u015fark\u0131lardan biri \u00e7al\u0131yordu. G\u00f6zlerimi yoldan ay\u0131rmad\u0131m; camdaki yans\u0131mas\u0131nda Zeynep\u2019in \u015fark\u0131 s\u00f6zlerini f\u0131s\u0131ldad\u0131\u011f\u0131n\u0131 g\u00f6r\u00fcnce g\u00f6zya\u015flar\u0131m\u0131 k\u0131rp\u0131\u015ft\u0131rarak geri ittim.<\/p>\n

Okulun \u00f6n\u00fcnde otopark kalabal\u0131kt\u0131. Arabalar kald\u0131r\u0131m boyunca dizilmi\u015fti ve bir grup baba so\u011fukta ayakta durmu\u015f, g\u00fcl\u00fc\u015ferek k\u0131zlar\u0131n\u0131 havaya kald\u0131r\u0131yordu. Onlar\u0131n mutlulu\u011fu neredeyse zalimce geliyordu. Zeynep\u2019in elini s\u0131kt\u0131m. \u201cHaz\u0131r m\u0131s\u0131n?\u201d diye sordum, sesim c\u0131l\u0131z \u00e7\u0131km\u0131\u015ft\u0131. \u201cSan\u0131r\u0131m anne.\u201d<\/p>\n

\u0130\u00e7eride spor salonu renklerle dolup ta\u015f\u0131yordu; s\u00fcsler, pembe ve g\u00fcm\u00fc\u015f balonlar, komik aksesuarlarla dolu bir foto\u011fraf k\u00f6\u015fesi… Duvarlarda hareketli m\u00fczikler yank\u0131lan\u0131yordu. Babalar ve k\u0131zlar, disko topunun alt\u0131nda k\u00fc\u00e7\u00fck ayakkab\u0131lar\u0131n\u0131 parlatarak d\u00f6n\u00fcyorlard\u0131. Zeynep i\u00e7eri girdi\u011fimizde yava\u015flad\u0131. \u201cArkada\u015flar\u0131ndan birini g\u00f6r\u00fcyor musun?\u201d diye sordum oday\u0131 tarayarak. \u201cHepsi babalar\u0131yla me\u015fgul.\u201d<\/p>\n

Dans pistinin kenar\u0131 boyunca duvara yak\u0131n y\u00fcr\u00fcmeye devam ettik. Birka\u00e7 ad\u0131mda bir insanlar bize bak\u0131yordu; benim sade siyah elbiseme ve Zeynep\u2019in o fazla cesur g\u00fcl\u00fcmsemesine. Zeynep\u2019in s\u0131n\u0131f\u0131ndan bir k\u0131z, Merve, babas\u0131 onu acemi bir valsle d\u00f6nd\u00fcr\u00fcrken kar\u015f\u0131dan el sallad\u0131. \u201cSelam Zeynep!\u201d diye ba\u011f\u0131rd\u0131. Babas\u0131 bize h\u0131zl\u0131 ve kibar bir ba\u015f selam\u0131 verdi. Zeynep g\u00fcl\u00fcmsedi ama yerinden k\u0131m\u0131ldamad\u0131.<\/p>\n

Minderlerin yan\u0131nda bir yer bulduk. Ben oturdum, Zeynep de yan\u0131ma b\u00fcz\u00fcld\u00fc, dizlerini kendine \u00e7ekti, rozeti renkli \u0131\u015f\u0131klar\u0131 yans\u0131t\u0131yordu. Umut dolu g\u00f6zlerle dans pistini izledi. Ancak yava\u015f bir \u015fark\u0131 ba\u015flad\u0131\u011f\u0131nda, Kemal\u2019in yoklu\u011funun a\u011f\u0131rl\u0131\u011f\u0131 onu daha da k\u00fc\u00e7\u00fcltm\u00fc\u015f gibi g\u00f6r\u00fcnd\u00fc. \u201cAnne?\u201d diye f\u0131s\u0131ldad\u0131. \u201cBelki… belki eve gitmeliyiz?\u201d<\/p>\n

Bu beni neredeyse mahvetti. Elini tuttum, eklemlerim ac\u0131yana kadar s\u0131kt\u0131m. \u201cBir dakika dinlenelim can\u0131m benim,\u201d dedim. Tam o s\u0131rada bir grup anne yan\u0131m\u0131zdan ge\u00e7ti, parf\u00fcmlerinin kokusu havada as\u0131l\u0131 kald\u0131. En \u00f6nde, her zamanki gibi kusursuz g\u00f6r\u00fcnen okulun “cemiyet krali\u00e7esi” Ceyda vard\u0131. Bizi fark edince duraklad\u0131, y\u00fcz\u00fcnde ac\u0131maya benzer bir ifade belirdi. \u201cZavall\u0131 \u015fey,\u201d dedi, ba\u015fkalar\u0131n\u0131n duyabilece\u011fi bir sesle. \u201cTam ailelere y\u00f6nelik etkinlikler… bilirsiniz i\u015fte, EKS\u0130K ailelerin \u00e7ocuklar\u0131 i\u00e7in her zaman zordur.\u201d<\/p>\n

Sertle\u015ftim, nabz\u0131m kulaklar\u0131mda g\u00fcm g\u00fcm at\u0131yordu. \u201cSiz ne dediniz?\u201d Sesim niyet etti\u011fimden daha sert \u00e7\u0131kt\u0131 ama umurumda de\u011fildi. Ceyda ince bir g\u00fcl\u00fcmsemeyle, \u201cSadece diyorum ki Canan, belki baz\u0131 etkinlikler herkes i\u00e7in de\u011fildir. Bu bir baba-k\u0131z dans\u0131. E\u011fer bir babas\u0131 yoksa\u2014\u201d \u201cK\u0131z\u0131m\u0131n bir babas\u0131 var,\u201d diye s\u00f6z\u00fcn\u00fc kestim. \u201cO, bu vatan\u0131 savunurken can\u0131n\u0131 verdi.\u201d Ceyda haz\u0131rl\u0131ks\u0131z yakalanm\u0131\u015f\u00e7as\u0131na g\u00f6zlerini k\u0131rp\u0131\u015ft\u0131rd\u0131. Di\u011fer anneler aniden bilezikleri ve telefonlar\u0131yla \u00e7ok yak\u0131ndan ilgilenmeye ba\u015flad\u0131lar.<\/p>\n

M\u00fczik tekrar de\u011fi\u015fti; Kemal\u2019in en sevdi\u011fi eskilerden biri \u00e7almaya ba\u015flad\u0131, hani Zeynep ile oturma odas\u0131nda dans ettikleri o \u015fark\u0131. Zeynep bana daha \u00e7ok sokuldu, y\u00fcz\u00fcn\u00fc koluma g\u00f6md\u00fc. \u201cKe\u015fke burada olsayd\u0131 anne.\u201d \u201cBiliyorum tatl\u0131m. Bunu her g\u00fcn diliyorum,\u201d diye m\u0131r\u0131ldand\u0131m sa\u00e7lar\u0131n\u0131 ok\u015fayarak. \u201cAma \u00e7ok iyi dayan\u0131yorsun. Seninle gurur duyard\u0131.\u201d Ba\u015f\u0131n\u0131 kald\u0131rd\u0131, g\u00f6zleri parl\u0131yordu. \u201cH\u00e2l\u00e2 dans etmemi ister miydi dersin?\u201d \u201cHer zamankinden daha \u00e7ok isterdi. \u2018G\u00f6ster onlara nas\u0131l yap\u0131l\u0131yormu\u015f benim U\u011fur B\u00f6ce\u011fim\u2019 derdi.\u201d Kalbim ac\u0131rken kendimi g\u00fcl\u00fcmsemeye zorlad\u0131m.<\/p>\n

Zeynep g\u00f6zya\u015flar\u0131n\u0131 tutmak i\u00e7in dudaklar\u0131n\u0131 \u0131s\u0131rd\u0131. \u201cAma herkes bize bak\u0131yormu\u015f gibi hissediyorum.\u201d Etraf\u0131m\u0131zdaki sessizlik a\u011f\u0131rla\u015fm\u0131\u015ft\u0131; \u00e7ok fazla insan bizi fark etmiyormu\u015f gibi davran\u0131yordu. Sonra aniden, spor salonunun kap\u0131lar\u0131 Zeynep\u2019i yerinden s\u0131\u00e7ratan bir g\u00fcmlemeyle ard\u0131na kadar a\u00e7\u0131ld\u0131. \u201cNeler oluyor?\u201d diye f\u0131s\u0131ldad\u0131 koluma yap\u0131\u015farak.<\/p>\n"},"alt_text":"","media_type":"image","mime_type":"image\/jpeg","media_details":{"width":912,"height":1136,"file":"2026\/04\/vs-2.jpg","filesize":267435,"sizes":{"medium":{"file":"vs-2-241x300.jpg","width":241,"height":300,"filesize":16629,"mime_type":"image\/jpeg","source_url":"https:\/\/bilgitarif.com\/yeni\/wp-content\/uploads\/2026\/04\/vs-2-241x300.jpg"},"large":{"file":"vs-2-822x1024.jpg","width":822,"height":1024,"filesize":99902,"mime_type":"image\/jpeg","source_url":"https:\/\/bilgitarif.com\/yeni\/wp-content\/uploads\/2026\/04\/vs-2-822x1024.jpg"},"thumbnail":{"file":"vs-2-150x150.jpg","width":150,"height":150,"filesize":7218,"mime_type":"image\/jpeg","source_url":"https:\/\/bilgitarif.com\/yeni\/wp-content\/uploads\/2026\/04\/vs-2-150x150.jpg"},"medium_large":{"file":"vs-2-768x957.jpg","width":768,"height":957,"filesize":89724,"mime_type":"image\/jpeg","source_url":"https:\/\/bilgitarif.com\/yeni\/wp-content\/uploads\/2026\/04\/vs-2-768x957.jpg"},"full":{"file":"vs-2.jpg","width":912,"height":1136,"mime_type":"image\/jpeg","source_url":"https:\/\/bilgitarif.com\/yeni\/wp-content\/uploads\/2026\/04\/vs-2.jpg"}},"image_meta":{"aperture":"0","credit":"","camera":"","caption":"","created_timestamp":"0","copyright":"","focal_length":"0","iso":"0","shutter_speed":"0","title":"","orientation":"0","keywords":[]}},"post":5938,"source_url":"https:\/\/bilgitarif.com\/yeni\/wp-content\/uploads\/2026\/04\/vs-2.jpg","_links":{"self":[{"href":"https:\/\/bilgitarif.com\/yeni\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/media\/5939","targetHints":{"allow":["GET"]}}],"collection":[{"href":"https:\/\/bilgitarif.com\/yeni\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/media"}],"about":[{"href":"https:\/\/bilgitarif.com\/yeni\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/types\/attachment"}],"author":[{"embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/bilgitarif.com\/yeni\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/users\/1"}],"replies":[{"embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/bilgitarif.com\/yeni\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/comments?post=5939"}],"wp:attached-to":[{"embeddable":true,"post_type":"post","id":5938,"href":"https:\/\/bilgitarif.com\/yeni\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/posts\/5938"}],"curies":[{"name":"wp","href":"https:\/\/api.w.org\/{rel}","templated":true}]}}