{"id":5910,"date":"2026-04-26T22:34:30","date_gmt":"2026-04-26T22:34:30","guid":{"rendered":"https:\/\/bilgitarif.com\/yeni\/wp-content\/uploads\/2026\/04\/hm.jpg"},"modified":"2026-04-26T22:34:40","modified_gmt":"2026-04-26T22:34:40","slug":"hm","status":"inherit","type":"attachment","link":"https:\/\/bilgitarif.com\/yeni\/hamilelik-surprizi-ve-aldatma\/hm\/","title":{"rendered":"Hamilelik S\u00fcrprizi ve Aldatma"},"author":1,"featured_media":0,"comment_status":"open","ping_status":"closed","template":"","meta":[],"class_list":["post-5910","attachment","type-attachment","status-inherit","hentry"],"description":{"rendered":"<p class=\"attachment\"><a href='https:\/\/bilgitarif.com\/yeni\/wp-content\/uploads\/2026\/04\/hm.jpg'><img loading=\"lazy\" decoding=\"async\" width=\"249\" height=\"300\" src=\"https:\/\/bilgitarif.com\/yeni\/wp-content\/uploads\/2026\/04\/hm-249x300.jpg\" class=\"attachment-medium size-medium\" alt=\"\" srcset=\"https:\/\/bilgitarif.com\/yeni\/wp-content\/uploads\/2026\/04\/hm-249x300.jpg 249w, https:\/\/bilgitarif.com\/yeni\/wp-content\/uploads\/2026\/04\/hm-848x1024.jpg 848w, https:\/\/bilgitarif.com\/yeni\/wp-content\/uploads\/2026\/04\/hm-768x927.jpg 768w, https:\/\/bilgitarif.com\/yeni\/wp-content\/uploads\/2026\/04\/hm.jpg 928w\" sizes=\"auto, (max-width: 249px) 100vw, 249px\" \/><\/a><\/p>\n"},"caption":{"rendered":"<p>GELECE\u011e\u0130M\u0130 KURDU\u011eUMU SANMIYORDUM; TA K\u0130 B\u0130R GER\u00c7EK HER \u015eEY\u0130 DE\u011e\u0130\u015eT\u0130RENE DEK. Gelece\u011fimi planlad\u0131\u011f\u0131m\u0131 san\u0131yordum, ta ki bir ger\u00e7ek her \u015feyi alt\u00fcst edene kadar. Sonras\u0131nda ya\u015fananlar, ne\u015feli bir kutlama olmas\u0131 gereken an\u0131 kimsenin tahmin edemeyece\u011fi bir \u015feye d\u00f6n\u00fc\u015ft\u00fcrd\u00fc. Ad\u0131m Nihat. Doktorlar bana duymaya haz\u0131r olmad\u0131\u011f\u0131m bir \u015fey s\u00f6ylediklerinde yirmi ya\u015f\u0131ndayd\u0131m. Genetik bir hastal\u0131k ta\u015f\u0131yordum; \u00f6yle bir hastal\u0131k ki, \u00e7ocu\u011fuma ge\u00e7erse onun hayat\u0131n\u0131 \u00e7ok zorla\u015ft\u0131rabilirdi. Anlam\u0131\u015f gibi ba\u015f\u0131m\u0131 sallad\u0131m ama anlamam\u0131\u015ft\u0131m. Tek d\u00fc\u015f\u00fcnebildi\u011fim, hen\u00fcz var olmayan birine zarar verme ihtimalimdi. Bu y\u00fczden acele bir karar verdim. Baba olmak her zaman istedi\u011fim bir \u015fey olsa da, asla \u00e7ocuk sahibi olamayaca\u011f\u0131m\u0131 garanti alt\u0131na alacak o ameliyat\u0131 olmay\u0131 se\u00e7tim. O zamanlar kendimi bunun sorumluluk sahibi bir se\u00e7im oldu\u011funa ikna ettim. Sonra bu konuyu rafa kald\u0131rd\u0131m; sonu\u00e7lar\u0131yla daha sonra y\u00fczle\u015fece\u011fimi s\u00f6yledim kendime. Ard\u0131ndan hayat\u0131ma Selin girdi. Ona ger\u00e7e\u011fi anlatmad\u0131m. Bunu bir s\u0131r olarak saklad\u0131m, &#8220;do\u011fru zaman\u0131&#8221; bekledim. \u00dc\u00e7 y\u0131l ge\u00e7ti. Ni\u015fanland\u0131k. Birlikte bir hayat kurduk; ortak al\u0131\u015fkanl\u0131klar, ortak bir ev, ortak planlar&#8230; D\u0131\u015far\u0131dan bak\u0131ld\u0131\u011f\u0131nda her \u015fey m\u00fckemmel g\u00f6r\u00fcn\u00fcyordu. Sonra bir ak\u015fam, y\u00fcz\u00fcnde g\u00fcller a\u00e7arak i\u00e7eri girdi. &#8220;Sana bir s\u00fcrprizim var,&#8221; dedi. &#8220;On haftal\u0131k hamileyim!&#8221; Bu s\u00f6zler bana o kadar sert \u00e7arpt\u0131 ki, sars\u0131lmamak i\u00e7in bir sandalyeye tutunmak zorunda kald\u0131m. G\u00fcl\u00fcmsedim ama i\u00e7imde her \u015fey yerle bir olmu\u015ftu. \u00c7ocuk sahibi olamayaca\u011f\u0131m\u0131 bilmiyordu. Bu da tek bir anlama geliyordu: E\u011fer hamileyse, bebek benden de\u011fildi. Yine de oyunun bir par\u00e7as\u0131 oldum. &#8220;Bu harika,&#8221; dedim. &#8220;Kutlamal\u0131y\u0131z.&#8221; G\u00fcle oynaya bana sar\u0131ld\u0131. Ben de sanki hi\u00e7bir sorun yokmu\u015f gibi ona sar\u0131ld\u0131m. Ama bir \u015feyler uymuyordu. On hafta. \u00c7\u00fcnk\u00fc tam on hafta \u00f6nce&#8230; biz darmada\u011f\u0131n olmu\u015ftuk. \u0130li\u015fkimizin en k\u00f6t\u00fc kavgas\u0131n\u0131 etmi\u015ftik. Sesler y\u00fckselmi\u015f, a\u011f\u0131r s\u00f6zler s\u00f6ylenmi\u015fti. Y\u00fcz\u00fc\u011f\u00fcn\u00fc \u00e7\u0131kar\u0131p atm\u0131\u015f ve &#8220;sak\u0131n beni arama&#8221; diyerek \u00e7ekip gitmi\u015fti. Neredeyse iki ay boyunca hi\u00e7 konu\u015fmad\u0131k. Ne bir mesaj, ne bir arama. Sonra aniden geri geldi. Her \u015feyi d\u00fczeltmek istedi\u011fini s\u00f6yledi. Kabul ettim. \u015eimdi ise mutfa\u011f\u0131m\u0131zda dikilmi\u015f, hamile oldu\u011funu s\u00f6yl\u00fcyordu; ancak takvimdeki tarihler asla uyu\u015fmuyordu.<\/p>\n"},"alt_text":"","media_type":"image","mime_type":"image\/jpeg","media_details":{"width":928,"height":1120,"file":"2026\/04\/hm.jpg","filesize":109346,"sizes":{"medium":{"file":"hm-249x300.jpg","width":249,"height":300,"filesize":20361,"mime_type":"image\/jpeg","source_url":"https:\/\/bilgitarif.com\/yeni\/wp-content\/uploads\/2026\/04\/hm-249x300.jpg"},"large":{"file":"hm-848x1024.jpg","width":848,"height":1024,"filesize":128025,"mime_type":"image\/jpeg","source_url":"https:\/\/bilgitarif.com\/yeni\/wp-content\/uploads\/2026\/04\/hm-848x1024.jpg"},"thumbnail":{"file":"hm-150x150.jpg","width":150,"height":150,"filesize":7826,"mime_type":"image\/jpeg","source_url":"https:\/\/bilgitarif.com\/yeni\/wp-content\/uploads\/2026\/04\/hm-150x150.jpg"},"medium_large":{"file":"hm-768x927.jpg","width":768,"height":927,"filesize":110927,"mime_type":"image\/jpeg","source_url":"https:\/\/bilgitarif.com\/yeni\/wp-content\/uploads\/2026\/04\/hm-768x927.jpg"},"full":{"file":"hm.jpg","width":928,"height":1120,"mime_type":"image\/jpeg","source_url":"https:\/\/bilgitarif.com\/yeni\/wp-content\/uploads\/2026\/04\/hm.jpg"}},"image_meta":{"aperture":"0","credit":"","camera":"","caption":"","created_timestamp":"0","copyright":"","focal_length":"0","iso":"0","shutter_speed":"0","title":"","orientation":"0","keywords":[]}},"post":5909,"source_url":"https:\/\/bilgitarif.com\/yeni\/wp-content\/uploads\/2026\/04\/hm.jpg","_links":{"self":[{"href":"https:\/\/bilgitarif.com\/yeni\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/media\/5910","targetHints":{"allow":["GET"]}}],"collection":[{"href":"https:\/\/bilgitarif.com\/yeni\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/media"}],"about":[{"href":"https:\/\/bilgitarif.com\/yeni\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/types\/attachment"}],"author":[{"embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/bilgitarif.com\/yeni\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/users\/1"}],"replies":[{"embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/bilgitarif.com\/yeni\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/comments?post=5910"}],"wp:attached-to":[{"embeddable":true,"post_type":"post","id":5909,"href":"https:\/\/bilgitarif.com\/yeni\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/posts\/5909"}],"curies":[{"name":"wp","href":"https:\/\/api.w.org\/{rel}","templated":true}]}}