{"id":5864,"date":"2026-04-25T19:16:20","date_gmt":"2026-04-25T19:16:20","guid":{"rendered":"https:\/\/bilgitarif.com\/yeni\/wp-content\/uploads\/2026\/04\/tgfg.webp"},"modified":"2026-04-25T19:16:31","modified_gmt":"2026-04-25T19:16:31","slug":"tgfg-7","status":"inherit","type":"attachment","link":"https:\/\/bilgitarif.com\/yeni\/38-yillik-evliligimiz-bir-ihanetle-bitti\/tgfg-7\/","title":{"rendered":"38 Y\u0131ll\u0131k Evlili\u011fimiz Bir \u0130hanetle Bitti"},"author":1,"featured_media":0,"comment_status":"open","ping_status":"closed","template":"","meta":[],"class_list":["post-5864","attachment","type-attachment","status-inherit","hentry"],"description":{"rendered":"<p class=\"attachment\"><a href='https:\/\/bilgitarif.com\/yeni\/wp-content\/uploads\/2026\/04\/tgfg.webp'><img loading=\"lazy\" decoding=\"async\" width=\"300\" height=\"80\" src=\"https:\/\/bilgitarif.com\/yeni\/wp-content\/uploads\/2026\/04\/tgfg-300x80.webp\" class=\"attachment-medium size-medium\" alt=\"\" srcset=\"https:\/\/bilgitarif.com\/yeni\/wp-content\/uploads\/2026\/04\/tgfg-300x80.webp 300w, https:\/\/bilgitarif.com\/yeni\/wp-content\/uploads\/2026\/04\/tgfg.webp 768w\" sizes=\"auto, (max-width: 300px) 100vw, 300px\" \/><\/a><\/p>\n"},"caption":{"rendered":"<p>E\u015fim Kemal ile \u00fcniversite y\u0131llar\u0131nda tan\u0131\u015fm\u0131\u015ft\u0131k. Daha 20 ya\u015f\u0131ndayken evlendik. Y\u0131llarca mutlu bir hayat\u0131m\u0131z oldu. \u0130ki \u00e7ocu\u011fumuz, be\u015f torunumuz vard\u0131. Ta ki bir g\u00fcn her \u015fey de\u011fi\u015fene kadar. Kemal i\u00e7ine kapanmaya ba\u015flad\u0131. Geceleri salonda kal\u0131yor, kap\u0131y\u0131 kapat\u0131yordu. Ne sorsam \u201ci\u015f stresi\u201d diyordu. Alt\u0131 ay boyunca bu b\u00f6yle s\u00fcrd\u00fc. Sonra bir ak\u015fam mutfak masas\u0131na oturdu ve g\u00f6zlerime bakmadan s\u00f6yledi: \u201cSeni ba\u015fka bir kad\u0131nla aldatt\u0131m.\u201d O an d\u00fcnyam y\u0131k\u0131ld\u0131. 38 y\u0131l\u2026 bir c\u00fcmleyle silinmi\u015f gibiydi. Ne kadar sorsam da hi\u00e7bir \u015feyi a\u00e7\u0131klamad\u0131. Bu ger\u00e7ekle ya\u015fayamad\u0131m. Bo\u015fand\u0131k. Be\u015f y\u0131l boyunca hi\u00e7 konu\u015fmad\u0131k. Sadece \u00e7ocuklar arada onunla g\u00f6r\u00fc\u015f\u00fcyordu. Sonra bir g\u00fcn hastaneden arand\u0131m. Kemal kalp krizi ge\u00e7irmi\u015f\u2026 ve \u00f6lm\u00fc\u015ft\u00fc. D\u00fcn cenazesi vard\u0131. Herkes oradayd\u0131. Tan\u0131d\u0131k y\u00fczler\u2026 ama bir ki\u015fi hari\u00e7. En arkada oturan bir kad\u0131n. Onu hi\u00e7 g\u00f6rmemi\u015ftim. T\u00f6ren bittikten sonra yan\u0131na gittim. \u201cE\u015fimi nereden tan\u0131yordunuz?\u201d diye sordum. Kad\u0131n gerildi. Ka\u00e7amak cevap vermek istedi ama \u0131srar ettim. Sonunda beni kenara \u00e7ekti. \u201cGer\u00e7e\u011fi bilmiyorsunuz,\u201d dedi. \u201cBe\u015f y\u0131l \u00f6nce olanlar\u0131\u2026 e\u015finizin sizin i\u00e7in ne yapt\u0131\u011f\u0131n\u0131\u2026\u201d Kalbim h\u0131zland\u0131. \u201cNe demek istiyorsunuz?\u201d Kad\u0131n derin bir nefes ald\u0131. \u201cBen o kad\u0131n de\u011filim,\u201d dedi. \u201cYani sand\u0131\u011f\u0131n\u0131z ki\u015fi de\u011filim.\u201d Kafam kar\u0131\u015ft\u0131. \u201cE\u015finizin size s\u00f6yledi\u011fi \u2018aldatma\u2019 hikayesi do\u011fru de\u011fildi.\u201d Bir an nefesim kesildi. \u201cYalan m\u0131yd\u0131?\u201d Kad\u0131n ba\u015f\u0131n\u0131 sallad\u0131. \u201cEvet. Ama sizi incitmek i\u00e7in de\u011fil\u2026 sizi korumak i\u00e7in yapt\u0131.\u201d \u0130\u00e7imde \u00f6fke kabard\u0131. \u201cBeni korumak m\u0131? 38 y\u0131ll\u0131k evlili\u011fi y\u0131karak m\u0131?\u201d Kad\u0131n g\u00f6zlerini ka\u00e7\u0131rd\u0131. \u201cBe\u015f y\u0131l \u00f6nce size bir te\u015fhis kondu\u011funu hat\u0131rl\u0131yor musunuz?\u201d Donup kald\u0131m. Evet\u2026 hat\u0131rl\u0131yordum. Ama o zaman kesin de\u011fildi. Kad\u0131n devam etti: \u201cDurum sand\u0131\u011f\u0131n\u0131zdan daha a\u011f\u0131rd\u0131. Uzun ve riskli bir tedavi gerekiyordu. E\u015finiz ger\u00e7e\u011fi \u00f6\u011frendi ama sizin bunu bilmenizi istemedi.\u201d Titremeye ba\u015flad\u0131m. \u201cNeden?\u201d Kad\u0131n \u00e7antas\u0131ndan bir zarf \u00e7\u0131kard\u0131. \u201cBunu size vermemi istedi.\u201d Zarf\u0131 a\u00e7t\u0131m. 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