{"id":5716,"date":"2026-04-22T23:51:45","date_gmt":"2026-04-22T23:51:45","guid":{"rendered":"https:\/\/bilgitarif.com\/yeni\/wp-content\/uploads\/2026\/04\/arkaasim.jpeg"},"modified":"2026-04-22T23:51:52","modified_gmt":"2026-04-22T23:51:52","slug":"arkaasim","status":"inherit","type":"attachment","link":"https:\/\/bilgitarif.com\/yeni\/erkek-arkadasimin-benim-hakkimda-konusup-cocuk-sahibi-olamayacagimla-alay-ettigini-tesadufen-duydum\/arkaasim\/","title":{"rendered":"arkaasim"},"author":1,"featured_media":0,"comment_status":"open","ping_status":"closed","template":"","meta":[],"class_list":["post-5716","attachment","type-attachment","status-inherit","hentry"],"description":{"rendered":"<p class=\"attachment\"><a href='https:\/\/bilgitarif.com\/yeni\/wp-content\/uploads\/2026\/04\/arkaasim.jpeg'><img loading=\"lazy\" decoding=\"async\" width=\"300\" height=\"200\" src=\"https:\/\/bilgitarif.com\/yeni\/wp-content\/uploads\/2026\/04\/arkaasim-300x200.jpeg\" class=\"attachment-medium size-medium\" alt=\"\" srcset=\"https:\/\/bilgitarif.com\/yeni\/wp-content\/uploads\/2026\/04\/arkaasim-300x200.jpeg 300w, https:\/\/bilgitarif.com\/yeni\/wp-content\/uploads\/2026\/04\/arkaasim-768x512.jpeg 768w, https:\/\/bilgitarif.com\/yeni\/wp-content\/uploads\/2026\/04\/arkaasim.jpeg 800w\" sizes=\"auto, (max-width: 300px) 100vw, 300px\" \/><\/a><\/p>\n"},"caption":{"rendered":"<p>O gece uyumad\u0131m.<\/p>\n<p>A\u011flamad\u0131m da, sadece d\u00fc\u015f\u00fcnd\u00fcm.<\/p>\n<p>Ertesi g\u00fcn her \u015feyi \u00e7oktan hesaplam\u0131\u015ft\u0131m: haz\u0131rlad\u0131\u011f\u0131m t\u00fcm yemekleri, y\u0131kad\u0131\u011f\u0131m \u00e7ama\u015f\u0131rlar\u0131, temizledi\u011fim evi, onu dinlemek ve desteklemek i\u00e7in harcad\u0131\u011f\u0131m saatleri.<\/p>\n<p>Erkek arkada\u015f\u0131m\u0131n benim hakk\u0131mda konu\u015fup \u00e7ocuk sahibi olamayaca\u011f\u0131mla alay etti\u011fini tesad\u00fcfen duydum: y\u0131k\u0131lm\u0131\u015ft\u0131m, ama sonras\u0131nda yapt\u0131\u011f\u0131m \u015fey onun hayat\u0131n\u0131 sonsuza kadar de\u011fi\u015ftirdi.<\/p>\n<p>Rakam g\u00fcl\u00fcn\u00e7t\u00fc\u2026 iyi anlamda.<\/p>\n<p>Ona g\u00f6sterip s\u00f6yledim: \u201cBu bana bor\u00e7lu oldu\u011fun miktar.\u201d<\/p>\n<p>\u201cBu bir \u015faka m\u0131?\u201d diye \u015fa\u015fk\u0131nl\u0131kla sordu.<\/p>\n<p>Erkek arkada\u015f\u0131m\u0131n benim hakk\u0131mda konu\u015fup \u00e7ocuk sahibi olamayaca\u011f\u0131mla alay etti\u011fini tesad\u00fcfen duydum: y\u0131k\u0131lm\u0131\u015ft\u0131m, ama sonras\u0131nda yapt\u0131\u011f\u0131m \u015fey onun hayat\u0131n\u0131 sonsuza kadar de\u011fi\u015ftirdi.<\/p>\n<p>Bir avukata dan\u0131\u015fm\u0131\u015ft\u0131m: be\u015f y\u0131l birlikte ya\u015fad\u0131ktan sonra haklar\u0131m g\u00fc\u00e7l\u00fcyd\u00fc ve bana her \u015feyi geri \u00f6demek zorunda kald\u0131.<\/p>\n<p>Bug\u00fcn yaln\u0131z ve \u00f6zg\u00fcr ya\u015f\u0131yorum, ne yapaca\u011f\u0131ma kendim karar veriyorum ve her davran\u0131\u015f\u0131 takdir ediyorum \u00e7\u00fcnk\u00fc bu benim se\u00e7imim, bir zorunluluk 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