{"id":5715,"date":"2026-04-22T23:51:33","date_gmt":"2026-04-22T23:51:33","guid":{"rendered":"https:\/\/bilgitarif.com\/yeni\/wp-content\/uploads\/2026\/04\/erkek.jpg"},"modified":"2026-04-22T23:51:36","modified_gmt":"2026-04-22T23:51:36","slug":"erkek","status":"inherit","type":"attachment","link":"https:\/\/bilgitarif.com\/yeni\/erkek-arkadasimin-benim-hakkimda-konusup-cocuk-sahibi-olamayacagimla-alay-ettigini-tesadufen-duydum\/erkek\/","title":{"rendered":"erkek"},"author":1,"featured_media":0,"comment_status":"open","ping_status":"closed","template":"","meta":[],"class_list":["post-5715","attachment","type-attachment","status-inherit","hentry"],"description":{"rendered":"<p class=\"attachment\"><a href='https:\/\/bilgitarif.com\/yeni\/wp-content\/uploads\/2026\/04\/erkek.jpg'><img loading=\"lazy\" decoding=\"async\" width=\"300\" height=\"180\" src=\"https:\/\/bilgitarif.com\/yeni\/wp-content\/uploads\/2026\/04\/erkek-300x180.jpg\" class=\"attachment-medium size-medium\" alt=\"\" srcset=\"https:\/\/bilgitarif.com\/yeni\/wp-content\/uploads\/2026\/04\/erkek-300x180.jpg 300w, https:\/\/bilgitarif.com\/yeni\/wp-content\/uploads\/2026\/04\/erkek-768x460.jpg 768w, https:\/\/bilgitarif.com\/yeni\/wp-content\/uploads\/2026\/04\/erkek.jpg 800w\" sizes=\"auto, (max-width: 300px) 100vw, 300px\" \/><\/a><\/p>\n"},"caption":{"rendered":"<p>Be\u015f y\u0131ld\u0131r birlikteydik. Birlikte ya\u015f\u0131yorduk ve evlenip \u00e7ocuk sahibi olmay\u0131 hayal ediyorduk. S\u0131k s\u0131k \u015f\u00f6yle derdi: \u201cKa\u00e7 \u00e7ocu\u011fumuz olur bilmiyorum ama en \u00e7ok bir k\u0131z\u0131m olsun istiyorum.\u201d<\/p>\n<p>Ne yaz\u0131k ki sa\u011fl\u0131k sorunlar\u0131m oldu\u011fu ortaya \u00e7\u0131kt\u0131 ve doktor bana muhtemelen \u00e7ocuk sahibi olamayaca\u011f\u0131m\u0131 s\u00f6yledi. Erkek arkada\u015f\u0131m bana destek oldu, ancak bundan sonra ne zaman evlilik konusunu a\u00e7sam konuyu de\u011fi\u015ftiriyor ve eskisi gibi olmad\u0131\u011f\u0131n\u0131 fark ediyordum.<\/p>\n<p>Bir g\u00fcn ailesinin evinde ak\u015fam yeme\u011findeydik, o s\u0131rada onunla ailesi aras\u0131ndaki konu\u015fmay\u0131 duydum. Mutfaktayd\u0131m, halas\u0131 ona \u015f\u00f6yle sordu: \u201cPeki, ona ne zaman evlenme teklif edeceksin?\u201d<\/p>\n<p>Oldu\u011fum yerde kald\u0131m, bana s\u00fcrpriz yapaca\u011f\u0131n\u0131 d\u00fc\u015f\u00fcnd\u00fcm. Ama o \u015f\u00f6yle cevap verdi: \u201cEkmek vermeyen bir f\u0131r\u0131n\u0131 neden sat\u0131n alay\u0131m?\u201d ve sanki \u015fakaym\u0131\u015f gibi g\u00fclmeye ba\u015flad\u0131.<\/p>\n<p>Anne babas\u0131 ve halas\u0131 sessiz kald\u0131, ne demek istedi\u011fini anlamad\u0131lar.<\/p>\n<p>Ben ise duvar\u0131n arkas\u0131nda durmu\u015f, duyduklar\u0131mla y\u0131k\u0131lm\u0131\u015ft\u0131m. Kulaklar\u0131ma inanamad\u0131m. Sonra yapt\u0131\u011f\u0131m \u015fey onun hayat\u0131n\u0131 sonsuza kadar de\u011fi\u015ftirdi.<\/p>\n"},"alt_text":"","media_type":"image","mime_type":"image\/jpeg","media_details":{"width":800,"height":479,"file":"2026\/04\/erkek.jpg","filesize":46863,"sizes":{"medium":{"file":"erkek-300x180.jpg","width":300,"height":180,"filesize":11391,"mime_type":"image\/jpeg","source_url":"https:\/\/bilgitarif.com\/yeni\/wp-content\/uploads\/2026\/04\/erkek-300x180.jpg"},"thumbnail":{"file":"erkek-150x150.jpg","width":150,"height":150,"filesize":5757,"mime_type":"image\/jpeg","source_url":"https:\/\/bilgitarif.com\/yeni\/wp-content\/uploads\/2026\/04\/erkek-150x150.jpg"},"medium_large":{"file":"erkek-768x460.jpg","width":768,"height":460,"filesize":43103,"mime_type":"image\/jpeg","source_url":"https:\/\/bilgitarif.com\/yeni\/wp-content\/uploads\/2026\/04\/erkek-768x460.jpg"},"full":{"file":"erkek.jpg","width":800,"height":479,"mime_type":"image\/jpeg","source_url":"https:\/\/bilgitarif.com\/yeni\/wp-content\/uploads\/2026\/04\/erkek.jpg"}},"image_meta":{"aperture":"0","credit":"","camera":"","caption":"","created_timestamp":"0","copyright":"","focal_length":"0","iso":"0","shutter_speed":"0","title":"","orientation":"0","keywords":[]}},"post":5713,"source_url":"https:\/\/bilgitarif.com\/yeni\/wp-content\/uploads\/2026\/04\/erkek.jpg","_links":{"self":[{"href":"https:\/\/bilgitarif.com\/yeni\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/media\/5715","targetHints":{"allow":["GET"]}}],"collection":[{"href":"https:\/\/bilgitarif.com\/yeni\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/media"}],"about":[{"href":"https:\/\/bilgitarif.com\/yeni\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/types\/attachment"}],"author":[{"embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/bilgitarif.com\/yeni\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/users\/1"}],"replies":[{"embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/bilgitarif.com\/yeni\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/comments?post=5715"}],"wp:attached-to":[{"embeddable":true,"post_type":"post","id":5713,"href":"https:\/\/bilgitarif.com\/yeni\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/posts\/5713"}],"curies":[{"name":"wp","href":"https:\/\/api.w.org\/{rel}","templated":true}]}}