{"id":2737,"date":"2025-05-25T19:14:22","date_gmt":"2025-05-25T19:14:22","guid":{"rendered":"https:\/\/bilgitarif.com\/yeni\/wp-content\/uploads\/2025\/05\/havva.jpg"},"modified":"2025-05-25T19:14:24","modified_gmt":"2025-05-25T19:14:24","slug":"havva","status":"inherit","type":"attachment","link":"https:\/\/bilgitarif.com\/yeni\/insan-gonlune-soz-geciremiyor\/havva\/","title":{"rendered":"havva"},"author":1,"featured_media":0,"comment_status":"open","ping_status":"closed","template":"","meta":[],"class_list":["post-2737","attachment","type-attachment","status-inherit","hentry"],"description":{"rendered":"<p class=\"attachment\"><a href='https:\/\/bilgitarif.com\/yeni\/wp-content\/uploads\/2025\/05\/havva.jpg'><img loading=\"lazy\" decoding=\"async\" width=\"300\" height=\"207\" src=\"https:\/\/bilgitarif.com\/yeni\/wp-content\/uploads\/2025\/05\/havva-300x207.jpg\" class=\"attachment-medium size-medium\" alt=\"\" srcset=\"https:\/\/bilgitarif.com\/yeni\/wp-content\/uploads\/2025\/05\/havva-300x207.jpg 300w, https:\/\/bilgitarif.com\/yeni\/wp-content\/uploads\/2025\/05\/havva.jpg 600w\" sizes=\"auto, (max-width: 300px) 100vw, 300px\" \/><\/a><\/p>\n"},"caption":{"rendered":"<p>Ben de ona g\u00fcvenmeye ba\u015flad\u0131m. Her ne kadar mesafeli bir \u015fekilde ba\u015flasam da, g\u00fcnler ge\u00e7tik\u00e7e i\u00e7imi \u0131s\u0131tan, bana de\u011fer veren biri gibi g\u00f6r\u00fcnd\u00fc. O kadar \u00e7ok s\u0131k\u0131ld\u0131m ki yaln\u0131zl\u0131ktan, o kadar \u00e7ok ihtiya\u00e7 duydum ki birinin ilgisini kazanmak i\u00e7in her \u015feyi verdim.<br \/>\nBir g\u00fcn, bana ba\u015fka bir \u015fehirdeki bir i\u015f toplant\u0131s\u0131na kat\u0131laca\u011f\u0131n\u0131 s\u00f6yledi. U\u00e7ak bileti ve otel masraflar\u0131n\u0131 halledece\u011fini ama bir \u00f6deme yapmas\u0131 gerekti\u011fini ekledi. \u201cAy\u015fe, bana yard\u0131mc\u0131 olabilir misin? Sadece birka\u00e7 g\u00fcnl\u00fc\u011f\u00fcne bir miktar para g\u00f6nderirsen, her \u015fey \u00e7\u00f6z\u00fclecek.\u201d \u0130lk ba\u015fta teredd\u00fct ettim ama sonra ona g\u00fcvenip, sahip oldu\u011fum paradan bir k\u0131sm\u0131n\u0131 g\u00f6ndermeye karar verdim.<br \/>\nOna g\u00fcvenmeye ba\u015flad\u0131k\u00e7a, daha fazla yard\u0131m ve para talep etmeye ba\u015flad\u0131. Zamanla, bir sorun \u00e7\u0131kt\u0131 ve \u201cBa\u015fka bir \u00f6deme yapmam\u0131z laz\u0131m\u201d dedi. Bu s\u00fcre\u00e7 bir s\u00fcre daha devam etti, her defas\u0131nda ben daha da yava\u015f\u00e7a ama sa\u011flam ad\u0131mlarla ona para g\u00f6ndermeye devam ettim. D\u00fc\u015f\u00fcnmeden, \u201cOna yard\u0131mc\u0131 olmal\u0131y\u0131m,\u201d dedim. Ama bir g\u00fcn, telefonlar\u0131na ula\u015famamaya ba\u015flad\u0131m. Mesajlar\u0131m yan\u0131tlanmad\u0131, sesli yan\u0131tlar hep ayn\u0131yd\u0131, cevap yoktu.<br \/>\nBirka\u00e7 hafta ge\u00e7tikten sonra, o tan\u0131d\u0131\u011f\u0131m adam art\u0131k yoktu. Kendisini tekrar arad\u0131m, ama ne telefonunda, ne de internette herhangi bir iz bulabildim. Ve bir sabah uyand\u0131\u011f\u0131mda, her \u015feyin bir yalan oldu\u011funu fark ettim. Emre, asl\u0131nda beni doland\u0131rm\u0131\u015ft\u0131. Yava\u015f\u00e7a i\u00e7imi t\u00fcketen o adam, kalbimi k\u0131rm\u0131\u015f ve beni yaln\u0131z b\u0131rakm\u0131\u015ft\u0131.<br \/>\nBir \u015fekilde, doland\u0131r\u0131ld\u0131\u011f\u0131m\u0131 anlam\u0131\u015ft\u0131m ama i\u015f i\u015ften ge\u00e7mi\u015fti. \u00dcz\u00fcnt\u00fcm, \u00f6fkem, hayal k\u0131r\u0131kl\u0131\u011f\u0131m her \u015feyin \u00f6n\u00fcndeydi. Ama bir \u015fey fark ettim: Ben hala ayaktayd\u0131m. Ge\u00e7mi\u015fte kaybettiklerimle de bar\u0131\u015ft\u0131m. Bu hikaye, bana bir ders verdi: Ger\u00e7ek sevgiyi ararken, kendimi unutmamal\u0131yd\u0131m.<br \/>\n\u015eimdi internete girmiyorum. Yaln\u0131zl\u0131\u011f\u0131mda \u00f6\u011frendi\u011fim \u015fey \u015fu: Ger\u00e7ek dostluk ve g\u00fcven, paradan daha de\u011ferli. Ve ya\u015fl\u0131l\u0131k, yaln\u0131zl\u0131k, insan\u0131 ne kadar k\u0131rsa da, insan her zaman yeniden aya\u011fa kalkabilir.<\/p>\n"},"alt_text":"","media_type":"image","mime_type":"image\/jpeg","media_details":{"width":600,"height":413,"file":"2025\/05\/havva.jpg","filesize":161035,"sizes":{"medium":{"file":"havva-300x207.jpg","width":300,"height":207,"filesize":12905,"mime_type":"image\/jpeg","source_url":"https:\/\/bilgitarif.com\/yeni\/wp-content\/uploads\/2025\/05\/havva-300x207.jpg"},"thumbnail":{"file":"havva-150x150.jpg","width":150,"height":150,"filesize":6531,"mime_type":"image\/jpeg","source_url":"https:\/\/bilgitarif.com\/yeni\/wp-content\/uploads\/2025\/05\/havva-150x150.jpg"},"full":{"file":"havva.jpg","width":600,"height":413,"mime_type":"image\/jpeg","source_url":"https:\/\/bilgitarif.com\/yeni\/wp-content\/uploads\/2025\/05\/havva.jpg"}},"image_meta":{"aperture":"0","credit":"","camera":"","caption":"","created_timestamp":"0","copyright":"","focal_length":"0","iso":"0","shutter_speed":"0","title":"","orientation":"0","keywords":[]}},"post":2734,"source_url":"https:\/\/bilgitarif.com\/yeni\/wp-content\/uploads\/2025\/05\/havva.jpg","_links":{"self":[{"href":"https:\/\/bilgitarif.com\/yeni\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/media\/2737","targetHints":{"allow":["GET"]}}],"collection":[{"href":"https:\/\/bilgitarif.com\/yeni\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/media"}],"about":[{"href":"https:\/\/bilgitarif.com\/yeni\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/types\/attachment"}],"author":[{"embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/bilgitarif.com\/yeni\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/users\/1"}],"replies":[{"embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/bilgitarif.com\/yeni\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/comments?post=2737"}],"wp:attached-to":[{"embeddable":true,"post_type":"post","id":2734,"href":"https:\/\/bilgitarif.com\/yeni\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/posts\/2734"}],"curies":[{"name":"wp","href":"https:\/\/api.w.org\/{rel}","templated":true}]}}