{"id":1366,"date":"2025-03-03T01:21:57","date_gmt":"2025-03-03T01:21:57","guid":{"rendered":"https:\/\/bilgitarif.com\/yeni\/wp-content\/uploads\/2025\/03\/sevgi.webp"},"modified":"2025-03-03T01:22:05","modified_gmt":"2025-03-03T01:22:05","slug":"sevgi","status":"inherit","type":"attachment","link":"https:\/\/bilgitarif.com\/yeni\/ben-koyde-ailemden-sevgi-gormeden-buyudum\/sevgi\/","title":{"rendered":"sevgi"},"author":1,"featured_media":0,"comment_status":"open","ping_status":"closed","template":"","meta":[],"class_list":["post-1366","attachment","type-attachment","status-inherit","hentry"],"description":{"rendered":"<p class=\"attachment\"><a href='https:\/\/bilgitarif.com\/yeni\/wp-content\/uploads\/2025\/03\/sevgi.webp'><img loading=\"lazy\" decoding=\"async\" width=\"299\" height=\"168\" src=\"https:\/\/bilgitarif.com\/yeni\/wp-content\/uploads\/2025\/03\/sevgi.webp\" class=\"attachment-medium size-medium\" alt=\"\" \/><\/a><\/p>\n"},"caption":{"rendered":"<p>Ben asl\u0131nda her i\u015fi bildi\u011fimi san\u0131yordum ama evlenince hi\u00e7 bir \u015fey bilmedi\u011fimi fark ettim. Babam hi\u00e7 evde durmaz d\u0131\u015fardan yer i\u00e7er. Bizde \u00f6yle \u00f6\u011f\u00fcn falan yok ac\u0131kan ekme\u011fin aras\u0131na \u00e7\u00f6kelek, peynir, re\u00e7el ne bulursa yerdi. Gece ge\u00e7 saatlere kadar ablalar\u0131mla radyoyu a\u00e7ar hal\u0131 dokur sonra \u00f6\u011flene kadar yatard\u0131k. Annem pek evde durmaz o kom\u015fu senin bu kom\u015fu benim gezerdi. Evin i\u015fini \u00fcst\u00fcnk\u00f6r\u00fc ablalar\u0131m yar\u0131m saattte bitirir tekrar hal\u0131ya otururduk. Ben hi\u00e7 ev i\u015fi yapmazd\u0131m. Bir hafta kaynanam a\u011fz\u0131n\u0131 a\u00e7mad\u0131 sonra : \u00ab_K\u0131z\u0131m bak bu saatte kalk\u0131lmaz. Evin bereketi ka\u00e7ar. Sabah namaz\u0131 k\u0131l\u0131p i\u015fleri ku\u015fluk vaktine kadar bitirip birde ku\u015fluk namaz\u0131 k\u0131l\u0131nsa ne g\u00fczel olur\u00bb dedi. Ben namaz k\u0131lmay\u0131 bilmiyorum anne dedim. Ben sana \u00f6\u011fretirim dedi. Her sabah erkenden kalk\u0131p saat ona, en ge\u00e7 onbire bitiriyorduk. Bu k\u00f6yde hal\u0131 dokuma i\u015fi yoktu. \u00c7ok ba\u011f bah\u00e7ede yoktu evin ihtiyac\u0131 kadar ekip dikiyorduk.<\/p>\n<p>Her i\u015f vaktinde yap\u0131lmazsa kaynanam adeta \u00e7\u0131ld\u0131rt\u0131yordu. Mesela yemek yendi bula\u015f\u0131k hemen y\u0131kanacak vb. Bu bana \u00e7ok zor geliyordu ilk ba\u015flarda. Ba\u011f\u0131r\u0131p \u00e7a\u011f\u0131r\u0131yor kavga ediyorduk ama bunu asla o\u011fluna yans\u0131tm\u0131yordu. Sonra ben onun d\u00fczenine al\u0131\u015ft\u0131m. Bir s\u00fcre sonra her\u015feyi \u00f6\u011frendim. Asl\u0131nda her i\u015fi birlikte yap\u0131yorduk ama i\u015fin a\u011f\u0131r taraf\u0131n\u0131 kendisi al\u0131yordu.<\/p>\n<p>Seksenli y\u0131llar mesela o zamanlar \u00e7ama\u015f\u0131r makinesi yok birer le\u011fen \u00e7ama\u015f\u0131r y\u0131k\u0131yoruz kendi b\u00fcy\u00fck \u00e7ama\u015f\u0131rlar\u0131 y\u0131kard\u0131 bana k\u00fc\u00e7\u00fck \u00e7ama\u015f\u0131rlar\u0131 verirdi. \u00c7ok dindar bir kad\u0131nd\u0131. Bana namaz k\u0131l demezdi ama namaz\u0131n \u00f6nemini anlat\u0131rd\u0131. Asla bo\u015f konu\u015fmaz yalan s\u00f6ylemez haks\u0131zl\u0131k yapmazd\u0131. Helale harama \u00e7ok \u00f6nem verirdi. \u0130ki \u00e7ocu\u011fum oldu. Hamileliklerim \u00e7ok k\u00f6t\u00fc ge\u00e7ti. Bu s\u00fcrede beni hi\u00e7 mutfa\u011fa sokmad\u0131. \u00c7ocuklar\u0131n bak\u0131m\u0131nda \u00e7ok yard\u0131mc\u0131 oldu. <\/p>\n"},"alt_text":"","media_type":"image","mime_type":"image\/webp","media_details":{"width":299,"height":168,"file":"2025\/03\/sevgi.webp","filesize":6034,"sizes":{"thumbnail":{"file":"sevgi-150x150.webp","width":150,"height":150,"filesize":3452,"mime_type":"image\/webp","source_url":"https:\/\/bilgitarif.com\/yeni\/wp-content\/uploads\/2025\/03\/sevgi-150x150.webp"},"full":{"file":"sevgi.webp","width":299,"height":168,"mime_type":"image\/webp","source_url":"https:\/\/bilgitarif.com\/yeni\/wp-content\/uploads\/2025\/03\/sevgi.webp"}},"image_meta":{"aperture":"0","credit":"","camera":"","caption":"","created_timestamp":"0","copyright":"","focal_length":"0","iso":"0","shutter_speed":"0","title":"","orientation":"0","keywords":[]}},"post":1364,"source_url":"https:\/\/bilgitarif.com\/yeni\/wp-content\/uploads\/2025\/03\/sevgi.webp","_links":{"self":[{"href":"https:\/\/bilgitarif.com\/yeni\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/media\/1366","targetHints":{"allow":["GET"]}}],"collection":[{"href":"https:\/\/bilgitarif.com\/yeni\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/media"}],"about":[{"href":"https:\/\/bilgitarif.com\/yeni\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/types\/attachment"}],"author":[{"embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/bilgitarif.com\/yeni\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/users\/1"}],"replies":[{"embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/bilgitarif.com\/yeni\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/comments?post=1366"}],"wp:attached-to":[{"embeddable":true,"post_type":"post","id":1364,"href":"https:\/\/bilgitarif.com\/yeni\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/posts\/1364"}],"curies":[{"name":"wp","href":"https:\/\/api.w.org\/{rel}","templated":true}]}}